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Retrieved 9 March Air Weapons and Licensing Scotland Act Retrieved 16 February Increasingly, you learn to despise the men because of the way they perceive you. Lap-dancing is about creating a situation whereby the men feel they are doing you a favour - that's the way the game is set up, so all the power is with the customer. Rather than being a lucrative job, in her experience, as soon as a woman starts working at one of the clubs, it costs her money. There are so many ways to make money from you. You are constantly trying to make as much money as possible out of everybody, otherwise you are literally paying to be there. Quite often I made nothing. There were a lot of nights when I would have taken money out and come home with less. I could never go to work as anything near myself and that becomes damaging. The message that working in the sex industry is normal, exciting - sometimes even empowering - is a popular one in our culture. 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It seems to me more that your work here is an excellent argument for biblical grounds for divorce on the basis of willful desertion by an unbelieving spouse I Cor 7: Space does not permit a full treatment of this chapter or even the most pertinent verses, but a few observations are relevant as far as the question of pornography use is concerned. Commentators are divided on exactly what Paul is talking about verses , but it is agreed Paul is positing two scenarios of marital strain. In the first scenario, married believers facing difficulties commanded to work towards reconciliation. In the second scenario, a believer married to an unbeliever is also told to work towards reconciliation but is given the option to separate if the unbelieving partner insists on the separation. The exact meaning, extent, and implications of this separation are hotly debated. One does not need more than one legitimate ground for divorce to get divorced. The matter is not easy to decide. Various position statements, for instance, have considered the question of whether spousal abuse is type of abandonment. The PCA is quick to qualify, however, the list of offenses tantamount to desertion cannot be very long. Potentially divorceable offenses must be as objective and covenant-breaking in nature as porneia or physical abandonment, and we must never open the floodgates so wide as to allow for the kind of any-fault divorces Jesus and Paul spoke against. In some scenarios of pornography addiction, signs of sexual or emotional abandonment will certainly be present in the marriage. On the basis of Exodus However, this litmus test may not be the best way to determine hardheartedness. Sucked into a world of fantasy, the affection and devotion of these men shrivel until their marriage is not even a shell of what it once was. Other men, however, are more like Judah: Judah still had the temple cult, the Levitical priesthood, and the rightful Davidic king on the throne, but as a nation they were still guilty of spiritual porniea. Men entrenched in porn still might be good providers and desire frequent physical intimacy with their wives, but nonetheless refuse to give up their sexual idolatry. Like Judah, they can be guilty of porniea and live a duplicitous life. In the application of 1 Corinthians 7: In many cases, not all four prerequisites will be in place but elders could still judge that the offending spouse is guilty of porniea. Smacking how few things change over the years. Very sad, and likewise, the author wad not sufficient in his scope to adequately address the bounds on immorality and sin. Did you know that many wives drive their men into sin? But she will not have this man to rule over her! And she will agitate, and oppose, and vilify, and SIN, all in the name of doing what she thinks is best, rather than submit to the will of her God in his word. And which of you confronts and throws off THIS? Precious few, I assure you. If I turn to porn occasionally because my wife has cut me off with her attitude and spiritual ugliness, I do not receive your rebuke; neither consider it grounds for divorce. I have sexual desires I cannot turn of, and rather than actually lie with anther woman, I relieve myself of my sexual burden and am finished with it for awhile. Would to God my life had turned ought different, but this is my burden, and if you choose to judge me fue it, look first tho yourself, for you have not walked in my shoes nor born my cross. It goes deep and trust is broken! I hate my marriage! There are many men who are so disconnected that they are unable to have empathy for their partners. When men are disconnected from their own interior life in this way, and substitute porn for emotional connection, over the course of a lifetime this pattern becomes extremely entrenched and difficult to dislodge. I also suggest that women get their own counselor and find their own systems of support while considering what healthy boundaries will look like articles here , here , and here given the reality of the situation. There is health, healing and freedom, no matter what he chooses. As I read the article, I went from agreement to disagreement to agreement. The goal MUST be reconciliation. I know a couple that has been separated for several years and they are still working to raise the family and restore the relationship. I believe that divorce should only be done for legal protection. Divorce burns too many bridges to be taken lightly. Excellent post! Several sidenotes: Do you agree or disagree, and if you disagree, could I see some sources? Also, Septuagint might be more accessible that LXX. God bless your ministry and thanks for writing. Great question about the betrothal view, Kenneth. If I understand you, the translation of Matthew Take Mark 8: It removes another exception included by Matthew: They merely assume the more complete statement is the most accurate to what Jesus actually said. I would refer you to the work of David Instone-Brewer who has argued most strongly in this regard. Matthew, he says, is merely making explicit what is implicit in the parallel story in Mark. Taken by itself, the question makes little sense. Of course divorce is lawful: Moses, the lawgiver, allowed it. For me, there are two main problems with the betrothal view. Second, the immediate context does not support the notion that premarital fornication is in view. The Pharisees were not discussing the breaking of betrothals. None the passages cited by Jesus or the Pharisees are about betrothal—rather Jesus assumes they are one flesh already, not just legally bound to become one flesh. Kenneth, I have thought about this one a lot. I feel like vomiting if he tries to touch me. He also is an alcoholic and lies about so many things. Am I to be nlamed for sexual abandonment since I cannot go there at all anymore? Great, great, great! I was with you all along the way. I guess my question stems around the Christian man who is repentant yet struggling…forever struggling…forever…struggling. What is the toll she must pay to love like Christ, but not be able to partake or enjoy any of the deepness that marriage is supposed to bring? When she looks into the eyes of her husband, those of her children and more importantly to the cross, divorce is not an option for her. Like the last part of the article talks about, when it comes to discerning hardness of heart, God has given us the body of Christ to come alongside us and use his means of grace. I would want the wife to also be in counseling for herself so she could process her own emotions. Second, out of that environment of help, I think it is best that those involved use discernment to see if this man is really hardhearted—just using grace as a license to sin. No woman should have to stand alone in figuring this kind of stuff out. She needs wise and compassionate counselors around her. I agree with you as I said in the article grounds for divorce does not mean necessary divorce. Some good friends of mine did that. Divorce ended up being, for them, the catalyst that drove them to the end of themselves and brought about real change in the heart. Hearse a Couple for Twenty years 4 Children The Maeeiage started to Change for the worst some 9 years ago the wife had no answer as to why she just noticed something was Very off in their Relationship. No Intmasey , no expressions of a loving husband only when he wanted something , Done nothing with the children Totally self Centred Any way after been found out to have had a lifelong Addiction to Pornography , well the running started and the Blaming Started and is still going. What are my options? God help me please! I came across this article recently, and it might be helpful to you as well: You know, we are not slaves to sin. We are not required to submit to sin or live under its control. I am in this same situation April! Since it has been 2 years since you posted this do you have any new insights? I am disgusted at the thought of my husband even touching me now and sex feels gross, not special anymore. Sex has become less and less meaningful every time I hear of a relapse over the last 16 years. I feel like I am stuck in this marriage because I am a Christian. Peace and freedom, Kay. I am praying for you, and understand completely. Thanks for your comment. In my isolation, comments like yours are like a tiny shaft of light in the darkness. Marianne, KD, Rena, April and all the other women who are have been in the same boat, my heart breaks with yours. It is truly gut wrenching to feel day after day that you are not enough. To experience the cycle countless times, begging and holding out hope that was the last time. While the rest of your friends argue about their husband not helping with the kids or not being clean enough, your heart is quietly breaking wishing that was the most of your worries. Until my heart became hard. I know God can make the impossible possible, and I know he can restore all things new. I know that regardless of God telling you not to marry a specific person, that once you are married that is his plan for your life. When you are dragged in circles time after time? Rhetorical It is just so hard to comprehend and not long for something else, a do-over. I live in Moscow Idaho, the home of Doug Wilson. His wife divorced him with the full blessing of Doug Wilson. The justification was porn use. Top Gun. The man watched Top Gun and Doug Wilson recommended his wife divorce him for it. I am a big fan of covenant eyes and what you guys do, but do realize that your article is promoting ideas that are already being used to justify the unjustifiable. The ideas you are articulating moving away from the traditional requirement of physical adultery for divorce can, will and are being abused. Thanks for the heads up about Doug Wilson. I have no doubt they will. All we can do is do our best to articulate the position as it is meant to be followed. All a bit on the extreme side of the Patriarchal Movement and Covenant Theology, and many in that movement are being found to be guilty of affairs and other gross sin. I personally steer clear of those guys and choose to stay a bit more mainstream these days. Not all preachers associated with that movement are the same on this matter, but I find in general that they are very unfair toward women in troubled marriages. Luke, just wondered if you know of a book for my grown adult Son who is really in depression, grieving over our divorcing. His Dad was born and raised in the church, and has been a sex addict since he was His dad was very much living a double life. We were married 41 years. All I can do is pray for him and love him love him love him. But anyway, any good book to send his way? Great question. Your son ought to be grieving over your divorce because it is a sad thing. That said, he should not stay in a state of toxic grief. I would encourage him to really delve into any good resources about the fatherhood of God. That is a sad situation and heartbreaking for a Mom. Dear Luke, I am both heartened and disheartened by your post. I have an M. After working many years as an actress in musical theater and then turning 40 oops — too old to be valuable I began a long journey into seeing the arts for the exploitation industry it is. Google the speech. You will be shocked at what a true prophet he was. Interestingly, Philo T. Fransworth, the inventor of the cathode ray tube and father of television, would not even have one in his house once he saw how it was being used. I did intense studies of the portrayal of women in the arts and the only consistent measurable data found was they had to be young, thin, and beautiful — and willing to flaunt their assets to move ahead in the industry. Guess what, her career tanked from there. Enter my research into the Internet, with another degree in Multimedia and Design. I saw what was happening to women in the ad industry: I was 45, they we Visual sex sells even if it is phony. Suffice to say the point was lost on the young males of the species. The point of this being that men arrogantly will mentally use the visual image to initially fantasize the encounter and place themselves into the sex scene with another woman. They physically ejaculate imagining themselves physically one with the other woman. Is it divorce worthy? Hence, this is grounds for divorce. When will we take this seriously? It is crack! Strip clubs are next, followed by teasing with the idea of a prostitute and eventually the encounter takes place. Or an affair. Or both. Well, neither are you the hunk of burning love from your 20s! Can reconciliation happen? Is it preferable? The answer is only sometimes yes. On discovery day the man is relieved of the dead rotting corpse he is dragging around — but he puts that burden on his wife and now she has to carry around the insecurity of not being young, pretty or skinny enough, not being chosen, and not being able to tell when her husband is lying to her because he spent years developing a talent for deception and fraud. It would seem you agree. That said, Jesus also sees hardness of heart to be another key in the whole matter. Did God divorce Israel after single instances of lust for other gods? We should not see grounds for divorce as lone acts of indiscretion after which repentance is heartily pursued. We do this not because we think these sins are unharmful. We do this because we desire to emulate God in his fidelity to His people. Your last paragraph sums up where I am right now so well that I am crying as I write this. All the PhDs, Scholars, and Professionals in the world, with their oh-so-savvy biblical interpretations, have no right to declare that a woman has no grounds for divorce to a porn addict for even the first offence. The damage to me is permanent, regardless of whether I stay or not. I forever know I am unable to measure up to the real and fake beauty of porn images which my husband is surely thinking about with every kiss and touch. He risked his marriage, his reputation among family on both sides, his relationships with his friends, and most importantly the love of his wife, all for self-gratification of sex by proxy. That is extremely selfish and hard-hearted, and shows where his priorities are. My relationship is forever changed, whether I stay married or not. I may never fully trust him and I question his love, probably always will feel insecure in trust and love for any man the rest of my life. I question his sincerity. Is he crying because he got caught, or because he is repentant? Is it adultery? He has turned to other women for sexual satisfaction. What I am feeling now is on the same scale as being cheated on physically. Hey there. A discovery like this is devastating. Many, many women who go through this will meet the criteria for PTSD. He needs a CSAT certified therapist. Groups can help too: As terrible as this is right now, I do want to let you know that men CAN change. It takes time and commitment and a whole lot of personal responsibility, but it can happen. It happened in my marriage. My own story is that our marriage is exponentially better today than it ever was before my husband got into porn. When we choose to turn toward Home, God redeems. I hope your husband makes that choice! Meanwhile, get the support that you need to be healthy as you go forward. Way to go, Annie!! Beautifully expressed! Actually, I think that a husband who masturbates imagining himself having sex with any woman other than his wife breaks, not just two commandments, but four: Oh my gosh Annie! I am so very sorry my dear sister. First, we start out weeping and asking why. I so wanted this blessing for us. I remember writing in my Bible something that I had read shortly after I found out about the affair and echoed my feelings at the time. Whatever you loathed about yourself, now defines you. The loss of your basic sense of self is an injury that cuts much deeper than the infidelity itself. Then we get angry at the person that is causing all this pain because we feel like an animal caught in a trap, writhing in agony and our husband, like a bystander, looks on with only emptiness in his eyes. I loved my husband but there was nothing that I could say that would change him. But he was already gone; already given over to his sin. But we so want it to change Lord. Offer first services under an institution. 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What finally made her leave?. The story of how one woman discovered her partner was paying for sex Credit: Getty He'd been going to prostitutes and lap-dancing clubs for 14 years if I could make him see them as individuals it would help him stop. The chains that had be bound have been broken off, and I am being restored and renewed in my Heavenly Father.

I am so excited for what God has for me. He has blessed me and He loves me. Create in me a clean heart and renew a right spirit within me.

What an awful prison they were banished to! I searched the scripture and prayed and the Lord told me that if I wanted to, I could leave. I Help women leave erotic dancing addiction glad I did not seek the counsel or men but rather laid my heart out to God.

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And thankful also that I truly hear the voice of God. I am sure there are Help women leave erotic dancing addiction who feel I should have spoken Help women leave erotic dancing addiction my pastor and brought this into church discipline, but we believed differently. That said, I put my husband out of the house after 20 some years of his hard heart and unwillingness to change, his lies, his betrayal, and his hiding of the porn.

And guess what? Nine hours of that and he began to seek the Lord and repent. Nothing I could do could make him repent because I and my emotions had only become objects to himbut when he started to lose everything HE had I had already lost so muchhis heart began to change. That was two years ago. We are doing very well now although there are still things that are hard, but we are honestly happy.

This is the work of God. This is how God changes hearts, heals broken hearts, and it really is only through prayer that we found the strength to go on, change, repent I had some of my own to do and begin a new life.

Help women leave erotic dancing addiction

There are programs, yes. And they are helpful, yes. The first part of your post seriously broke my heart and reminds me how each of us must seek God for ourselves and not rely on the opinions of men.

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Luke, your work here is very well researched and thought through. It seems to me more that your work here is an excellent argument for biblical grounds for divorce on the basis of willful desertion by an unbelieving spouse I Cor 7: Space does not permit a full treatment of this chapter or even the most pertinent verses, but a few observations are relevant as far as the question of pornography use is concerned.

Commentators are divided on exactly what Paul is talking about versesbut Help women leave erotic dancing addiction is agreed Paul is positing two scenarios of marital strain. In the first scenario, married believers facing difficulties commanded to work towards reconciliation.

In the second scenario, a believer married to an unbeliever is also told to work towards reconciliation but is given the option to separate Help women leave erotic dancing addiction the unbelieving partner insists on the separation.

The exact meaning, extent, and implications of this separation are hotly debated. One does not need more than one legitimate ground for divorce to get divorced. The matter is not easy to decide.

Various position statements, for instance, have more info the question of whether spousal abuse is type of abandonment.

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However the club's most profitable new venue was New York Live, which was a cabaret-style strip club act with women dancing three song sets upon a stage, while usually being totally nude for the final song. The amount of tipping rapidly increased and was then marketed as a lap dance, and its popularity caused lines of men to regularly appear outside the theater's doors. Later in , a San Francisco District Attorney 's decision to drop prostitution charges against lap dancers in the city changed the sexual culture of San Francisco and "has the potential to influence the policies of other cities". In some areas of the U. In , an upmarket Vancouver bar called "Gary Taylor's Show Lounge" employed showgirls and strippers as waitresses who gave a free dance with every drink. The club was raided by the police under the guise of obscenity legislation, but, in , Judge Jack McGivern ruled that dancer nudity was not obscene , which started a trend of nude dancing in bars. No contact between dancers and patrons was allowed at the club, but Gary Taylor's had a boxing ring where the girls performed revealing acrobatics after stripping off and then earned tips. Americans from Washington State made the trip to the club from the United States, which at the time had stricter laws. Gordon Hachborn legally defined lap dancing and ruled that it did not contravene Canadian public decency statutes. A number of conflicting judgements were issued in the years that followed, including decisions to close certain bars in which sex acts took place on the floor of the club and other rulings in which patrons were allowed to touch the dancers, as long as an actual sex act did not take place. In , the Supreme Court of Canada ruled that a typical lap dance did not constitute an "obscene" act within the meaning of the Criminal Code. The Crown did not argue that lap dances constituted "prostitution", and therefore the court did not address the possible issue that the typical lap dance may contravene one or more anti-prostitution laws. In , two Supreme Court of Canada rulings R. Labaye and R. Kouri decriminalized private sex clubs in Canada. On 20 December , in Bedford v. Canada the Supreme Court of Canada found the laws prohibiting brothels , public communication for the purpose of prostitution, and living on the profits of prostitution to be unconstitutional. The ruling gave the Canadian parliament twelve months to rewrite Canada's prostitution laws; in the meantime, existing anti-prostitution laws continued to be enforced. In the early s, lap dancing expanded rapidly in the Republic of Ireland , building on an existing strip pub industry. A number of lap-dancing clubs were opened in Dublin, including one by the English nightclub owner Peter Stringfellow. Lap-dancing clubs were also opened across the country. Many of Ireland's lap-dancing clubs have subsequently closed as a result of the worsened economic climate and changes to Ireland's licensing laws in Reputational issues have also played a part in the decline of Ireland's lap-dancing clubs. Police raids took place on Irish lap-dancing clubs in in search of criminal activity as part of Operation Quest. Efforts to distance Irish lap dancing from the sex industry were hampered by the UK's decision in to classify its lap dancing clubs as sex establishments. Ireland's lap-dancing clubs became viewed as more expensive than their rivals overseas and more restricted in terms of the entertainment on offer. By there were five or six clubs operating in Dublin, one in Galway and one in Cork. Most lap-dancing clubs in Ireland operate a no-touching rule, and typically do not charge dancers a "house fee" to perform, instead taking a proportion of the dancer's earnings. Some jurisdictions in the United States outlaw lap dances and enforce a minimum distance between dancer and patron. In Seattle , one such minimum distance ordinance was overturned by public referendum in November Hustler dvd cover. Top free pornstar porn videos. Gay hot orgy pic. Mature porn zandy rose. Free panty butt thumbs. Beautiful nudist top. Femdom financial control. Darlene rodriguez upskirt. As I read the article, I went from agreement to disagreement to agreement. The goal MUST be reconciliation. I know a couple that has been separated for several years and they are still working to raise the family and restore the relationship. I believe that divorce should only be done for legal protection. Divorce burns too many bridges to be taken lightly. Excellent post! Several sidenotes: Do you agree or disagree, and if you disagree, could I see some sources? Also, Septuagint might be more accessible that LXX. God bless your ministry and thanks for writing. Great question about the betrothal view, Kenneth. If I understand you, the translation of Matthew Take Mark 8: It removes another exception included by Matthew: They merely assume the more complete statement is the most accurate to what Jesus actually said. I would refer you to the work of David Instone-Brewer who has argued most strongly in this regard. Matthew, he says, is merely making explicit what is implicit in the parallel story in Mark. Taken by itself, the question makes little sense. Of course divorce is lawful: Moses, the lawgiver, allowed it. For me, there are two main problems with the betrothal view. Second, the immediate context does not support the notion that premarital fornication is in view. The Pharisees were not discussing the breaking of betrothals. None the passages cited by Jesus or the Pharisees are about betrothal—rather Jesus assumes they are one flesh already, not just legally bound to become one flesh. Kenneth, I have thought about this one a lot. I feel like vomiting if he tries to touch me. He also is an alcoholic and lies about so many things. Am I to be nlamed for sexual abandonment since I cannot go there at all anymore? Great, great, great! I was with you all along the way. I guess my question stems around the Christian man who is repentant yet struggling…forever struggling…forever…struggling. What is the toll she must pay to love like Christ, but not be able to partake or enjoy any of the deepness that marriage is supposed to bring? When she looks into the eyes of her husband, those of her children and more importantly to the cross, divorce is not an option for her. Like the last part of the article talks about, when it comes to discerning hardness of heart, God has given us the body of Christ to come alongside us and use his means of grace. I would want the wife to also be in counseling for herself so she could process her own emotions. Second, out of that environment of help, I think it is best that those involved use discernment to see if this man is really hardhearted—just using grace as a license to sin. No woman should have to stand alone in figuring this kind of stuff out. She needs wise and compassionate counselors around her. I agree with you as I said in the article grounds for divorce does not mean necessary divorce. Some good friends of mine did that. Divorce ended up being, for them, the catalyst that drove them to the end of themselves and brought about real change in the heart. Hearse a Couple for Twenty years 4 Children The Maeeiage started to Change for the worst some 9 years ago the wife had no answer as to why she just noticed something was Very off in their Relationship. No Intmasey , no expressions of a loving husband only when he wanted something , Done nothing with the children Totally self Centred Any way after been found out to have had a lifelong Addiction to Pornography , well the running started and the Blaming Started and is still going. What are my options? God help me please! I came across this article recently, and it might be helpful to you as well: You know, we are not slaves to sin. We are not required to submit to sin or live under its control. I am in this same situation April! Since it has been 2 years since you posted this do you have any new insights? I am disgusted at the thought of my husband even touching me now and sex feels gross, not special anymore. Sex has become less and less meaningful every time I hear of a relapse over the last 16 years. I feel like I am stuck in this marriage because I am a Christian. Peace and freedom, Kay. I am praying for you, and understand completely. Thanks for your comment. In my isolation, comments like yours are like a tiny shaft of light in the darkness. Marianne, KD, Rena, April and all the other women who are have been in the same boat, my heart breaks with yours. It is truly gut wrenching to feel day after day that you are not enough. To experience the cycle countless times, begging and holding out hope that was the last time. While the rest of your friends argue about their husband not helping with the kids or not being clean enough, your heart is quietly breaking wishing that was the most of your worries. Until my heart became hard. I know God can make the impossible possible, and I know he can restore all things new. I know that regardless of God telling you not to marry a specific person, that once you are married that is his plan for your life. When you are dragged in circles time after time? Rhetorical It is just so hard to comprehend and not long for something else, a do-over. I live in Moscow Idaho, the home of Doug Wilson. His wife divorced him with the full blessing of Doug Wilson. The justification was porn use. Top Gun. The man watched Top Gun and Doug Wilson recommended his wife divorce him for it. I am a big fan of covenant eyes and what you guys do, but do realize that your article is promoting ideas that are already being used to justify the unjustifiable. The ideas you are articulating moving away from the traditional requirement of physical adultery for divorce can, will and are being abused. Thanks for the heads up about Doug Wilson. I have no doubt they will. All we can do is do our best to articulate the position as it is meant to be followed. All a bit on the extreme side of the Patriarchal Movement and Covenant Theology, and many in that movement are being found to be guilty of affairs and other gross sin. I personally steer clear of those guys and choose to stay a bit more mainstream these days. Not all preachers associated with that movement are the same on this matter, but I find in general that they are very unfair toward women in troubled marriages. Luke, just wondered if you know of a book for my grown adult Son who is really in depression, grieving over our divorcing. His Dad was born and raised in the church, and has been a sex addict since he was His dad was very much living a double life. We were married 41 years. All I can do is pray for him and love him love him love him. But anyway, any good book to send his way? Great question. Your son ought to be grieving over your divorce because it is a sad thing. That said, he should not stay in a state of toxic grief. I would encourage him to really delve into any good resources about the fatherhood of God. That is a sad situation and heartbreaking for a Mom. Dear Luke, I am both heartened and disheartened by your post. I have an M. After working many years as an actress in musical theater and then turning 40 oops — too old to be valuable I began a long journey into seeing the arts for the exploitation industry it is. Google the speech. You will be shocked at what a true prophet he was. Interestingly, Philo T. Fransworth, the inventor of the cathode ray tube and father of television, would not even have one in his house once he saw how it was being used. I did intense studies of the portrayal of women in the arts and the only consistent measurable data found was they had to be young, thin, and beautiful — and willing to flaunt their assets to move ahead in the industry. Guess what, her career tanked from there. Enter my research into the Internet, with another degree in Multimedia and Design. I saw what was happening to women in the ad industry: I was 45, they we Visual sex sells even if it is phony. Suffice to say the point was lost on the young males of the species. The point of this being that men arrogantly will mentally use the visual image to initially fantasize the encounter and place themselves into the sex scene with another woman. They physically ejaculate imagining themselves physically one with the other woman. Is it divorce worthy? Hence, this is grounds for divorce. When will we take this seriously? It is crack! Strip clubs are next, followed by teasing with the idea of a prostitute and eventually the encounter takes place. Or an affair. Or both. Well, neither are you the hunk of burning love from your 20s! Can reconciliation happen? Is it preferable? The answer is only sometimes yes. On discovery day the man is relieved of the dead rotting corpse he is dragging around — but he puts that burden on his wife and now she has to carry around the insecurity of not being young, pretty or skinny enough, not being chosen, and not being able to tell when her husband is lying to her because he spent years developing a talent for deception and fraud. It would seem you agree. That said, Jesus also sees hardness of heart to be another key in the whole matter. Did God divorce Israel after single instances of lust for other gods? We should not see grounds for divorce as lone acts of indiscretion after which repentance is heartily pursued. We do this not because we think these sins are unharmful. We do this because we desire to emulate God in his fidelity to His people. Your last paragraph sums up where I am right now so well that I am crying as I write this. All the PhDs, Scholars, and Professionals in the world, with their oh-so-savvy biblical interpretations, have no right to declare that a woman has no grounds for divorce to a porn addict for even the first offence. The damage to me is permanent, regardless of whether I stay or not. I forever know I am unable to measure up to the real and fake beauty of porn images which my husband is surely thinking about with every kiss and touch. He risked his marriage, his reputation among family on both sides, his relationships with his friends, and most importantly the love of his wife, all for self-gratification of sex by proxy. That is extremely selfish and hard-hearted, and shows where his priorities are. My relationship is forever changed, whether I stay married or not. I may never fully trust him and I question his love, probably always will feel insecure in trust and love for any man the rest of my life. I question his sincerity. Is he crying because he got caught, or because he is repentant? Is it adultery? He has turned to other women for sexual satisfaction. What I am feeling now is on the same scale as being cheated on physically. Hey there. A discovery like this is devastating. Many, many women who go through this will meet the criteria for PTSD. He needs a CSAT certified therapist. Groups can help too: As terrible as this is right now, I do want to let you know that men CAN change. It takes time and commitment and a whole lot of personal responsibility, but it can happen. It happened in my marriage. My own story is that our marriage is exponentially better today than it ever was before my husband got into porn. When we choose to turn toward Home, God redeems. I hope your husband makes that choice! Meanwhile, get the support that you need to be healthy as you go forward. Way to go, Annie!! Beautifully expressed! Actually, I think that a husband who masturbates imagining himself having sex with any woman other than his wife breaks, not just two commandments, but four: Oh my gosh Annie! I am so very sorry my dear sister. First, we start out weeping and asking why. I so wanted this blessing for us. I remember writing in my Bible something that I had read shortly after I found out about the affair and echoed my feelings at the time. Whatever you loathed about yourself, now defines you. The loss of your basic sense of self is an injury that cuts much deeper than the infidelity itself. Then we get angry at the person that is causing all this pain because we feel like an animal caught in a trap, writhing in agony and our husband, like a bystander, looks on with only emptiness in his eyes. I loved my husband but there was nothing that I could say that would change him. But he was already gone; already given over to his sin. But we so want it to change Lord. How many hours spent crying and praying? You out there know the answer. When you thought that your heart could take not one little bit more of pain, you reminded yourself that the Lord will give you the strength you need. That promise is the only thing that kept you going. I was so grateful for that promise fulfilled. I was so grateful for all the promises I read. To be like Job with faith that makes you an inspiration to thousands upon thousands and generation upon generations. But Job, like us, was only human. He had questions to ask that God did not answer. WE know the reason he suffered as he did. And even when his questions went unanswered, and God chastised him, he walked away from all that humbled and praising God. You grieve because you have lost someone you loved. You say goodbye to the hope of having a loving relationship with this man. You know that neither of you are perfect. But you know what hurt more than any one other thing? It was the lies. The lies create such a reality from Hell. All you want to do is run to remove yourself from the chaos. Truth cries out, but am I the only one who hears her? My emotions are raw and I struggle to push the pain down further, just so I can function for the day; just so I can bring some normalcy to the two children I love so much. But one little brush with physical pain releases all that sorrow. It must be heard. But there are no words that pour forth; only groaning because there are no words. My Father in heaven understands what those sounds are saying and He is holding me. We long for someone on earth that we can trust and it should be the greatest example of trust with the one we are married to. Someone who knows us and we know them. To be like Adam and Eve, unashamed before the one you love. I am so grateful for all the characteristics that God formed in men. I believe that a man compliments me; that we are meant to be together. When a man looks you in the eye after he tells you how much he loves you and lies when you know he is lying, there is something that takes flight and you wonder if there will ever be a time when you will be able to see trust returning on the horizon. And it is that inability to trust that makes you feel the most dead. Because that is what we live in and I have to remind myself of that all the time. I must run this race with endurance with my eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and finisher of my faith. Help me Jesus to accept what I cannot change and be a witness for You. May I never do anything to bring Your name shame. Give me the strength to trust again; to love as You love. Help me to accept that the only true joy will not be found here apart from being in Your company. Number S. More Photos Latest Photos Midget espoir de. Male mutilation genitals video spank. The bigest dildo. Lesbian shemale massage. Street nudity xxx porn. Amature voyer thumbs. Huge dildos small holes. 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If one dancer starts breaking the rules then the pressure is on others to do the same. Once you've been there a while, you learn that certain things are profitable, and no contact is the first rule you learn to break. Eventually you start to wonder, what is the difference between me and a prostitute? Oddly, men who pay a naked woman for a sexual service in a lap-dancing club do not see themselves as "johns", she says. Yet I don't feel it's something I'd put on my CV. The respectability is very one-sided..

The PCA is quick to qualify, however, the list of offenses tantamount to desertion cannot be very long. Potentially divorceable offenses must be as objective and covenant-breaking in nature as porneia or physical abandonment, and we must never open the floodgates so wide as to allow for the kind of any-fault divorces Jesus and Paul spoke against.

In some scenarios of pornography addiction, signs of sexual or emotional abandonment will certainly be present in the marriage. On the basis of Exodus However, this litmus test may not be the best way to determine hardheartedness. Sucked into a world of fantasy, the affection and Help women leave erotic dancing addiction of these men shrivel until their marriage is not even a shell of what it once was.

Other men, Help women leave erotic dancing addiction, are more like Judah: Judah still had the temple cult, the Levitical priesthood, and the rightful Davidic king on the throne, but as a nation they were still guilty of spiritual porniea.

Men entrenched in porn still might be good providers and desire frequent physical intimacy with their wives, but nonetheless refuse to give up their sexual idolatry.

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Like Judah, they can be guilty of porniea and live a duplicitous life. In the application of 1 Corinthians 7: In many cases, not all four Help women leave erotic dancing addiction will be in place but elders could still judge that the offending spouse is guilty of porniea. Smacking how few things change over the years.

Very sad, and likewise, the author wad not sufficient in his scope to adequately address the bounds on immorality and sin. Did you know that many wives drive their men into sin? But she will not have this man to rule over her! And she will agitate, and oppose, and vilify, and SIN, all in the name of doing what she thinks is best, rather than submit to the will of her God Help women leave erotic dancing addiction his word. And which of you confronts and throws off THIS? Precious few, I assure you.

If I turn to porn occasionally because my wife has cut me off with her attitude and spiritual ugliness, I do not receive your rebuke; read article consider it grounds for divorce. I have sexual desires I cannot turn of, and rather than actually lie with anther woman, I relieve myself of my sexual burden and am finished with it for awhile.

Would to God my life had turned ought different, but this is my burden, and if you choose to judge me fue it, look first tho yourself, click you have not walked in my shoes nor born my cross. It goes deep and trust is broken!

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I hate my marriage! There are many men who are so disconnected that they are unable to have empathy for their Help women leave erotic dancing addiction. When men are disconnected from their own interior life in this way, and substitute porn for emotional connection, over the course of a lifetime this pattern becomes extremely entrenched and difficult to dislodge.

I also suggest that women get their own counselor and find their own systems of support while considering what healthy boundaries will look like articles here Help women leave erotic dancing addiction, hereand here given the reality of the situation. There is health, healing and freedom, no matter what he chooses. As I link the article, I went from agreement to disagreement to agreement.

The goal MUST be reconciliation. I know a couple that has been separated for several years and they are still working to raise the family and restore the relationship.

After all, this seems like a type of adultery to me.

I believe that divorce should only be done for legal protection. Divorce burns too many bridges to be taken lightly. Excellent post! Several sidenotes: Do you agree or disagree, and if you disagree, could I see some sources?

Also, Septuagint might be more accessible that LXX. God bless your ministry and thanks for writing. Great question about the betrothal view, Kenneth. If I understand you, the translation of Matthew Take Mark 8: It removes see more exception included by Matthew: They merely assume the more complete statement is the most accurate to what Jesus actually said. I would refer you to the work of David Instone-Brewer who has argued most strongly in Help women leave erotic dancing addiction regard.

Matthew, he says, is merely making explicit what is implicit in the parallel story in Mark. Taken Help women leave erotic dancing addiction itself, the question makes little sense. Of course divorce is lawful: Moses, the lawgiver, allowed it. For me, there are two main problems with the betrothal view.

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Second, the immediate context does not support the notion that premarital fornication is in view. The Pharisees were not discussing the breaking of betrothals. None the passages cited by Jesus or the Pharisees are about betrothal—rather Jesus assumes they are one flesh already, not just legally bound Help women leave erotic dancing addiction become one flesh.

Kenneth, I have thought about this one a lot. I feel like vomiting if he tries to touch me. He also is an alcoholic and lies about so many things. Am I to be nlamed for sexual abandonment since I cannot go there at all anymore? Great, great, great! I was with you all along the way. I guess my question stems around the Christian man who is repentant yet struggling…forever struggling…forever…struggling. What is the toll she must pay to love like Christ, but not be able to partake or enjoy any of the deepness that marriage is supposed to bring?

When she looks into the eyes of her Help women leave erotic dancing addiction, those of her children and more importantly to the cross, divorce is not an option for her. Like the last part of the article talks about, when it comes to discerning hardness of heart, God Help women leave erotic dancing addiction given us the body of Christ to come alongside us and use his means of grace.

I would want the wife to also be in counseling for herself so she could process her own emotions. Second, out of that environment of help, I think it is best that those involved use discernment to see if this man Help women leave erotic dancing addiction really hardhearted—just using grace as a license to sin.

No woman should have to stand alone in figuring this kind of stuff out. She needs wise and compassionate counselors around her. I agree with you as I said in the article grounds for divorce does not mean necessary divorce.

Some good friends of mine did that. Divorce ended up being, for them, the catalyst that drove them to the end of themselves and brought about real change in the heart. Hearse a Couple for Article source years 4 Children The Maeeiage started to Change for the worst some 9 years ago the wife had no answer as to why she just noticed something was Very off in their Relationship.

No Intmaseyno expressions of a loving husband only when he wanted somethingDone nothing with the children Totally self Centred Any way after been found out to have had a lifelong Addiction to Pornographywell the running started and the Blaming Started this web page is still going. What are my options?

God help me please! I came across this article recently, and it might be helpful to you as well: You know, we are not slaves to sin. We are not required to submit to sin or live under its Help women leave erotic dancing addiction. I am in this same situation April! Since it has been 2 years since you posted this do you have any new insights? I am disgusted at the thought of my husband even touching me now and sex feels gross, not special anymore.

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Sex has become less and less meaningful every time I hear of a relapse over the last 16 years. I feel like I am stuck in this marriage because I am a Christian. Peace and freedom, Kay.

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I am praying for you, and understand completely. Thanks for your comment. In my isolation, comments like yours are like a tiny shaft of light in the darkness.

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Oddly, men who pay a naked woman for a sexual service in a lap-dancing club do not see themselves as "johns", she says. Yet I don't feel it's something I'd put on my CV. The respectability is very one-sided. Elena doesn't believe that lap-dancing is about sex, instead, she says,"It fosters sexual violence. It is damaging even if people are doing it voluntarily. I chose it and that's part of the problem. He is very happy when he can destroy a family. I found out my husband of 17 years was viewing porn videos last week. Is there a man on the face of this earth who can watch porn only ONCE? Because of my husbands choices, Satan has a foothold in my home. I will have that discussion very soon with my husband-we need to separate so we can both begin the healing process. He has to work out his own salvation and so do I. So wise, Mae! Here , here and here are some articles that might help as you think that through. I hope your husband is able to make better choices in the future, but whatever he decides, you can always be healthy and whole. Peace to you, Kay. I used to be a fun loving, outgoing person and Now I can barely get out of bed. Each woman has the right to decide for herself if she wants out. You should really have a forum on here too and let women and men to have a place to share about specific things in their lives. Was it my treatment of a specific passage of concept? Hi Luke, If reconciliation is always the goal, is this still true for a couple who are unequally yoked? My situation is simple, we were married while not being true believers. I became saved, my husband completely rejects Jesus and the church and has an extreme porn addiction that he believes he is entitled to and does not plan on changing. What am I left to do? Paul makes as much clear in 1 Corinthians 7: Reconciliation is a good goal, but it takes two people to make this happen. Have you been able to confide in anyone at your church about this? Luke, thank you for your article. I have experienced a very strange twist of the story you wrote. Basically, I am considering divorcing my wife because of her unforgiving heart and desertion. Let me know if you would want to hear the story. It also involves the church poorly handling church discipline. I would love to hear the story, yes. I would be interested in your thoughts about a man who has many porn relapses, but is always very repentant and sorry seemingly genuine each time. But he is a serial porn user. You fit Matt Great question, Mark. Obviously, this question is a generality, and specific details matter a great deal. What was the fruit of that repentance? Did it involve distancing oneself from porn and the temptation to look at it? Or was it merely in words only? If distancing happened, in what way? What barricades were put in place? How did this man get through those barricades? Did his repentance involve restitution with the spouse? Did it involve confession to spiritual mentors in the church who can assist? Second, I would want to know how the church has been involved in this process. Ideally, trusted church members would be involved in this situation, offering counsel, advice, discipleship, and, at times, rebuke and discipline. I would ask those people their assessment of the situation. As the end of my article indicates, the God-given means of discerning hardness of heart is process of church discipline outlined by Jesus, so that would matter a great deal in how we assess the situation. Do you think that Jesus meant that a person who marries a divorced woman commits adultery? Can a woman who was divorced by her husband and is the innocent party remarry? Jesus said that if they divorce their wives unfairly they cause them to commit adultery. This has restrained me from seeking to remarry. Jesus was speaking at a time in history when women had absolutely no power. Women were property. They did not marry by their own choice, but rather at the will of their family patriarch. Men could divorce women for any reason whatsover, and then the woman would be without any kind of support unless her family gave her to another man. You can imagine the potential scenario: Jesus was calling society forward, toward more justice, toward more mercy. Our current model of marriage is quite different, of course, but women and men still find themselves being victimized in different ways. I think if Jesus spoke today, he would still be interested in treating victims with mercy and justice, rather than as throw-away people. This by the way was one month after our marriage and claims to hate God if he is real. His porn is everyday all day long, even while at school. His porn has escalated to some seriously disturbing stuff and uses it to attempt to control and abuse me. Which at the moment we are at least miles away from my family, because of our relationship I have no friends and my education has been placed on hold to serve him. Other than a godly love and desire to see him saved I have no love left for him and know that unless God calls him, removes his blinders and softens his heart I know it can be done this will be my whole life… any advice would be greatly appreciated?! Hi there. Let me give you a couple of links to articles on boundaries, here and here. Many many wives in situations like yours will meet the clinical criteria for PTSD post traumatic stress disorder. A separation can be a step toward healing, actually, if your husband were to take the opportunity to get into recovery. Sometimes guys do take the opportunity that a separation offers, and start to deal with their problems. Sometimes not. I would recommend finding a therapist who can help you process your emotions and think about those healthy boundaries. You might want to look for someone who has experience in counseling survivors of domestic abuse. I realise this is an old thread. Just wondering if the thesis has been uploaded to this site or if an email copy is still possible? To define it ANY other way is a lie and subverting from the truth that marriage is a one-flesh covenant which can only end in death. Also, it is very important to understand the covenant vow as it pertains to the life of those who are in Christ and how this person loves the unrepentant sinner. Also, whenever one makes a direct assumption of scripture, it must corroborate with other scripture on topic. It would be a greater witness to the body of Christ, and the witness to a fallen and wicked world to remain in a one-flesh covenant until the death or repentance of a prodigal spouse. This Gospel rendition views a sposue as loving a sinner while they are yet a sinner, and as the kindness of God leads to repentance, so too will the love of a spouse be a witness to a fallen spouse who desperately needs the Lord. Eph 5: You wrote: One commits adultery if the marriage was divorced after the marriage was a consummated one-flesh covenant. You may counter with, one may marry a divorced woman which was divorced because she committed sexual immorality, but that conflicts with marrying someone who did not show fruits of repentance. Would you honestly marry a woman who was in unrepentant sexual immorality? If it did, why is it adultery to marry her? This corroborates with Roman 7: Also, Mark Mark The majority also crucified the Lord. It just basically means the majority is wrong…. I am not a Protestant nor am I a Roman Catholic either…. I love you enough to tell you the truth. The church needs to preach, teach, live and represent marriage permanence, one man and one woman for life. I also believe no sinner is without hope if the Lord Jesus Christ is alive. Do you agree? Thanks for the lengthy comments. You seem to believe a one-flesh union can never or should never be broken. Only death severs this bond. My opinion is based largely on what the word porneia actually means. In the Septuagint, porneia and its verbal counterpart porneuo are consistently used to translate a Hebrew term referring to sexual intercourse, often with reference to prostitution. Most Greek lexicons treat it as a broad term for any kind of extra-marital sexual intercourse, incestuous marriages, prostitution, unchastity, or fornication. The definition of the word can be narrowed by the context, of course, but should we narrow the definition of the word in this instance Matthew 19 to a specific kind of sexual sin? Does the context demand this? No, I see no reason to do this. First, there is no reason to assume Jesus cannot take a strong, conservative stance on marriage and still allow for divorce in certain limited instances. Second, and most importantly, the immediate context does not support the notion that premarital fornication is in view. The Pharisees were not discussing the breaking of betrothal contracts, and none of the passages cited by Jesus or the Pharisees are about betrothal. Genesis 2: But nothing rules out divorce here. If we made this statement absolute, then not even death could sever a marriage bond. All this is saying is that marriage unites two people in whole-life oneness. Divorce is not discussed at all. Matthew 1: I agree that premarital sex or sex during betrothal is an example of porneia, but I hardly see why this specific story restricts the meaning of the word in Matthew Certainly Joseph was within his legal and moral rights to call off his wedding, but I have a hard time seeing why this should force a narrow definition on a word that has a much broader meaning in the Greek language many chapters later. I address this issue in an above comment: Matthew 5: Here I believe the exception clause means that in the case where a woman commits porneia, she is already an adulterer, thus the divorce does not make her one—she is one already. Romans 7: For a Jewish woman who was desperately unhappy with her marriage, the death of her husband was the only hope she had. In Jewish law, she could not initiate a divorce unless her husband neglected one of the obligations of Exodus Her only hope was that her husband would die. So, Romans 7 is an illustration by which Paul described how Christ has released us from the Law. So, instead Christ releases us by his death, which we share in if we are united to Him. Our marriage to the Law ends when we die in Christ—and when we are raised with Him, we are free to be wed to him. Ephesians 5: One can forgive an erring, unrepentant spouse and still not be married to them. One can admonish the idle, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, do good to others, and be patient with all…and not be married to them. Thank you for publishing this. It used to be alcohol, drugs, gambling and porn or various combinations of those and now we are down to porn. I found out two weeks after we were married two and a half years ago been together for seven. His vows were lies, he knew who we was and chose to cover it up. There is a wonderful side to my Husband but when my trust and respect for him are gone, as they are now, I feel horribly alone. It was easier to be verbally and physically abused. I KNEW what to expect. This jumps out after or before what has been or should be our most happiest moments as a couple. I am unable to gain satisfaction intimately with him anymore. I feel even THAT is one sided. We were baptized the same day just a month ago and since then have discovered he is keeping money from me, lying about how it is spent and found him with porn 3 times. Just the week before last, after being unable to speak with him for three days in an effort to refrain from saying damaging things, he was full of heartfelt apologies and wished for therapy for himself. A huge part of me just wants to kick him out and be done with it but I want so badly to follow the Word because I DO believe that is the single most important thing I can do. I wish I could have instant clarity on this. First of all, let me say that as a counselor, I do conceptualize pornography use as a form of abuse. Many, many women in this situation will meet the criteria for PTSD. When we treat PTSD, our very first clinical concern is getting the victim to safety so that they are not being retraumatized and so that healing can begin. That to me often means separation to see if the husband will recover AND to give the wife time to heal and create healthy boundaries, followed by reconciliation if possible, divorce if necessary. And this is the problem I find in the approach that so many religious approaches take. You give a tenth of your spices—mint, dill and cumin. But you have neglected the more important matters of the law—justice, mercy and faithfulness. You should have practiced the latter, without neglecting the former. But forgiveness does not mean automatic reconciliation! Forgiveness does not mean you ignore reality and stick your head in the ground! Forgiveness sometimes means releasing that person who refuses to take the opportunity of forgiveness to repent and work toward reconciliation. Forgiveness does not control the other person, and it is not a magic wand. I do think a counselor could be a help to you, but only if you feel safe and supported. If you feel forced—by any counselor or church—into staying in a situation that feels WORSE than your previously abusive marriage, then I think that counselor or church is out of line, no matter what kind of Bible verse they trot out. Carole, get out. Your husband sounds very wicked and unwilling to repent. Death severs the bond. Why argue if the obvious if the the word IS narrowed to fornication during betrothal? Would this interpretation cause a problem for you? I know it has for me. The correct definition of marriage is not what the world wants to hear. This is how marriage was done under the Mosaic law. Why would Luke need to mention that Joseph was already her husband if the Greeks knew nothing or cared little for Jewish betrothal customs? Why then did He make a new covenant with His wife, Israel? Read the entire book of Jeremiah, in particular chapter That is a poor exegete of the text. The Lord was using divorce allegorically with Israel. Mt Earthly marriage is the representation in the flesh of eternal marriage in the spirit. In fact, all the Lord teaches on marriage is specific to understanding the Gospel. Why did He not use porneia? Well, the commandment is thou shall not commit adultery. Divorce changes the definition of marriage from a covenant, to a contract. Believing that a divorce can end a covenant and a that remarriage to another is acceptable, is basically sanctifying adultery. The word would have been moichea adultery. Except on the ground of moicheia? It is just a worthless piece of paper. On your comments to Roman 7: And what is the marriage law? As it was in the beginning pre-sin , or as it was at the time of Moses after the fall during the time of a hardhearted nation? If marriage TODAY, is as it was in the beginning, then you can understand why Paul used marriage as the example to illustrate the Gospel and the law. Verse 15 does not free a spouse to divorce and remarry. You are adding to the text. Verse 15 gives a spouse peace to know that they are no longer unequally-yoked to an unbeliever. It also gives a spouse peace to know that they are not guilty of sin. No where will you find that we are to disregard an unbeliever as having no hope of salvation through the Lord Jesus Christ. Since an abandoning spouse is unrepentant, he or she cannot even divorce and remarry. Regardless of their background Thus, you would have us believe that a believing spouse would no longer be required to love his or her prodigal spouse, or that the vow to love them is no longer necessary? Do you understand the Gospel? Divorce is telling a spouse you will never forgive him or her. The point the Lord makes about marriage is this: If you choose to divorce, proving that your hearts are hard, then remain unmarried until one or both of you die. Did you know that kindness leads to repentance? Remaining in marriage is the only way that glorifies God. God hates divorce, and so should we. Instead, the false church has provided all kinds of loopholes to live for the gratification of the flesh and not to remain in the spirit of Christ. In marriage, a husband is to love his wife as Christ loves the church. You would have us believe that marriage is separate from understanding the mystery of the Gospel, yet that is exactly how Paul views marriage. It does not surprise me that you have quoted Instone-Brewer, as he has twisted the word of God to validate divorce and remarriage for any reason. I pray that the Holy Spirit would convict you to see the clear picture of one-flesh covenant marriage. 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Marianne, KD, Rena, April and all the other women who are have been Help women leave erotic dancing addiction the same boat, my heart breaks with yours. It is truly gut wrenching to feel day after day that you are not enough. To experience the cycle countless times, begging and holding out hope that was the last time.

While the rest of Help women leave erotic dancing addiction friends argue about their husband not helping with the kids or not being clean enough, your heart is quietly breaking wishing that was the most of your worries.

Until my heart became hard. I know God can make the impossible possible, and I know he can restore all things new. I know that regardless of God telling you not please click for source marry a specific person, that once you are married that is his plan for your life.

When you are dragged in circles time after time? Rhetorical It is just so hard to comprehend and not long for something else, a do-over.

I live in Moscow Idaho, the home of Doug Wilson. His wife divorced him with the full blessing of Doug Wilson. The justification was porn use. Top Gun. The man watched Top Gun and Doug Wilson recommended his wife divorce him for it. I am a big fan of covenant eyes and what you guys do, but do realize that your article is promoting ideas that are already being used to justify the unjustifiable.

The ideas you are articulating moving away from the traditional requirement of physical adultery for divorce can, will and are being abused.

japanese pornpics Watch Indeed jobs bartlesville ok Video Ozuna Xxxx. All this is saying is that marriage unites two people in whole-life oneness. Divorce is not discussed at all. Matthew 1: I agree that premarital sex or sex during betrothal is an example of porneia, but I hardly see why this specific story restricts the meaning of the word in Matthew Certainly Joseph was within his legal and moral rights to call off his wedding, but I have a hard time seeing why this should force a narrow definition on a word that has a much broader meaning in the Greek language many chapters later. I address this issue in an above comment: Matthew 5: Here I believe the exception clause means that in the case where a woman commits porneia, she is already an adulterer, thus the divorce does not make her one—she is one already. Romans 7: For a Jewish woman who was desperately unhappy with her marriage, the death of her husband was the only hope she had. In Jewish law, she could not initiate a divorce unless her husband neglected one of the obligations of Exodus Her only hope was that her husband would die. So, Romans 7 is an illustration by which Paul described how Christ has released us from the Law. So, instead Christ releases us by his death, which we share in if we are united to Him. Our marriage to the Law ends when we die in Christ—and when we are raised with Him, we are free to be wed to him. Ephesians 5: One can forgive an erring, unrepentant spouse and still not be married to them. One can admonish the idle, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, do good to others, and be patient with all…and not be married to them. Thank you for publishing this. It used to be alcohol, drugs, gambling and porn or various combinations of those and now we are down to porn. I found out two weeks after we were married two and a half years ago been together for seven. His vows were lies, he knew who we was and chose to cover it up. There is a wonderful side to my Husband but when my trust and respect for him are gone, as they are now, I feel horribly alone. It was easier to be verbally and physically abused. I KNEW what to expect. This jumps out after or before what has been or should be our most happiest moments as a couple. I am unable to gain satisfaction intimately with him anymore. I feel even THAT is one sided. We were baptized the same day just a month ago and since then have discovered he is keeping money from me, lying about how it is spent and found him with porn 3 times. Just the week before last, after being unable to speak with him for three days in an effort to refrain from saying damaging things, he was full of heartfelt apologies and wished for therapy for himself. A huge part of me just wants to kick him out and be done with it but I want so badly to follow the Word because I DO believe that is the single most important thing I can do. I wish I could have instant clarity on this. First of all, let me say that as a counselor, I do conceptualize pornography use as a form of abuse. Many, many women in this situation will meet the criteria for PTSD. When we treat PTSD, our very first clinical concern is getting the victim to safety so that they are not being retraumatized and so that healing can begin. That to me often means separation to see if the husband will recover AND to give the wife time to heal and create healthy boundaries, followed by reconciliation if possible, divorce if necessary. And this is the problem I find in the approach that so many religious approaches take. You give a tenth of your spices—mint, dill and cumin. But you have neglected the more important matters of the law—justice, mercy and faithfulness. You should have practiced the latter, without neglecting the former. But forgiveness does not mean automatic reconciliation! Forgiveness does not mean you ignore reality and stick your head in the ground! Forgiveness sometimes means releasing that person who refuses to take the opportunity of forgiveness to repent and work toward reconciliation. Forgiveness does not control the other person, and it is not a magic wand. I do think a counselor could be a help to you, but only if you feel safe and supported. If you feel forced—by any counselor or church—into staying in a situation that feels WORSE than your previously abusive marriage, then I think that counselor or church is out of line, no matter what kind of Bible verse they trot out. Carole, get out. Your husband sounds very wicked and unwilling to repent. Death severs the bond. Why argue if the obvious if the the word IS narrowed to fornication during betrothal? Would this interpretation cause a problem for you? I know it has for me. The correct definition of marriage is not what the world wants to hear. This is how marriage was done under the Mosaic law. Why would Luke need to mention that Joseph was already her husband if the Greeks knew nothing or cared little for Jewish betrothal customs? Why then did He make a new covenant with His wife, Israel? Read the entire book of Jeremiah, in particular chapter That is a poor exegete of the text. The Lord was using divorce allegorically with Israel. Mt Earthly marriage is the representation in the flesh of eternal marriage in the spirit. In fact, all the Lord teaches on marriage is specific to understanding the Gospel. Why did He not use porneia? Well, the commandment is thou shall not commit adultery. Divorce changes the definition of marriage from a covenant, to a contract. Believing that a divorce can end a covenant and a that remarriage to another is acceptable, is basically sanctifying adultery. The word would have been moichea adultery. Except on the ground of moicheia? It is just a worthless piece of paper. On your comments to Roman 7: And what is the marriage law? As it was in the beginning pre-sin , or as it was at the time of Moses after the fall during the time of a hardhearted nation? If marriage TODAY, is as it was in the beginning, then you can understand why Paul used marriage as the example to illustrate the Gospel and the law. Verse 15 does not free a spouse to divorce and remarry. You are adding to the text. Verse 15 gives a spouse peace to know that they are no longer unequally-yoked to an unbeliever. It also gives a spouse peace to know that they are not guilty of sin. No where will you find that we are to disregard an unbeliever as having no hope of salvation through the Lord Jesus Christ. Since an abandoning spouse is unrepentant, he or she cannot even divorce and remarry. Regardless of their background Thus, you would have us believe that a believing spouse would no longer be required to love his or her prodigal spouse, or that the vow to love them is no longer necessary? Do you understand the Gospel? Divorce is telling a spouse you will never forgive him or her. The point the Lord makes about marriage is this: If you choose to divorce, proving that your hearts are hard, then remain unmarried until one or both of you die. Did you know that kindness leads to repentance? Remaining in marriage is the only way that glorifies God. God hates divorce, and so should we. Instead, the false church has provided all kinds of loopholes to live for the gratification of the flesh and not to remain in the spirit of Christ. In marriage, a husband is to love his wife as Christ loves the church. You would have us believe that marriage is separate from understanding the mystery of the Gospel, yet that is exactly how Paul views marriage. It does not surprise me that you have quoted Instone-Brewer, as he has twisted the word of God to validate divorce and remarriage for any reason. I pray that the Holy Spirit would convict you to see the clear picture of one-flesh covenant marriage. The world will divorce and remarry, those who are truly in Christ will believe that a vow before God is far more eternally important than any man can tell, and that marriage, and remaining in marriage, can only ever be a true witness to the Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ. You and I both agree that Jesus held a very conservative view of marriage—far more conservative than his contemporaries and far more conservative than most hold today. You and I both agree that church discipline is very important when considering troubles in marriage I say as much in my article. The term has a very broad definition throughout the New Testament. We both agree the term can have a narrower definition if the context demands it. You clearly think the context demands it in Matthew 19, and I do not see more on that below. We disagree about the relevance of the Joseph and Mary account. The competitive school of thought by Rabbi Shammai believed divorce was only permissible after some kind of sexual indecency such as like adultery. The Pharisees specifically ask Jesus in Matthew 19 if he agrees with dominant Hillel position, to which he replies that he does not. In the context of the rabbinic debate, it would have been the most natural thing in the world to assume Jesus was using a broad definition of porneia. We disagree about the reason why Luke or Mark did not include the exception clause. You think it is because the Greek cared little about Jewish betrothal customs, whereas Matthew writing to a Jewish audience would care a great deal. I disagree because the Greeks and Romans had betrothal customs of their own that would have made a statement about breaking betrothal contract very appropriate. We disagree about the message of Jeremiah I do believe God divorced Israel—as he said he did. The northern 10 tribes were largely diseased and underwent incredible judgment. We disagree about the significance of Jeremiah We disagree about Genesis 2: Yes, Jesus quotes it to the Pharisees, but the question is why. Not because it talks about divorce, but because he wants the Pharisees to know that it is God who joins to people together in marriage. You and I disagree about the relevance of Matthew 5: You and I disagree about the relationship between porneia and moichea. You and I disagree about 1 Corinthians 7: That person is as free as the single person. You and I disagree about divorce and hardheartedness. Getting a divorce does not mean one is hardhearted. In fact, I specifically state the guidance in my article warning against this. I thank you for the discussion, however. Luke, As a pastor, I deal with this issue on a regular basis. I would greatly appreciate finding out where I can obtain a copy of your thesis. Thank you. If he is still distributing copies of the thesis, he will get back to you. Luke, it is very clear that your position defends divorce and remarriage just like the Pharisees defended divorce and remarriage. You will have to answer one day to all the people you deceived. I pray you repent before that day comes. You have been warned. Agreed 2. The real choice as you understand is to use the word adultery.. Fornication during betrothal makes the wife not a virgin on the consummation day of the marriage. A man could write a divorce decree if she lied about being a virgin. This is the point. The Lord is instructing the Pharisees during their time period, and this is not applicable today. I will tell you why. Because there are loopholes one can twist and turn to make marriage anything but a one-flesh covenant for life. Read early work on marriage by pre-Constitine Christians. Nearly every single one believes that it is adultery to remarry after divorce! Jer It is a spiritual allegory and to use this to validate your position is deceptive. Gen 2: This is what the Lord is telling us. The law of marriage is as it was in the beginning, not as it was at the time of Mosaic law. According to your understanding of porniea, that is the word that the LORD should have used in these verses. You can sugar-coat the Greek all you want, you can tell me you are a GREEK expert, but the truth is scripture is ONLY understood by the power of the Holy Spirit, and the words used as you use them do not corroborate with other passages, let alone does your understanding of marriage corroborate with the Gospel. That contradicts verses and 39 of the same chapter. It also contradicts the Gospel. Then you deny the Lord becasue He said Moses allowed divorced for the hardhearted. Divorce is NOT applicable today for the New Testament believer and teach otherwise is eternally damning! Divorce takes all credibility away from what God made good! And so do you! Thank you for sharpening my thinking and my ability to articulate my thoughts. Blessings to you, brother. Hi Luke, Icommented earlier on what i think of porn. I noticed your ongoing discussion wtih Neil in which he keeps saying that he believes remarriage is always adultery. I am wondering if in your theses you cover what to do in situations where one may hve wrongfully remarried? Folks like Neil also tend to believe that if the new marriage is on questionable grounds it must be broken up. I have to admit I wonder that too. If one is an a wrong remarriage and you sincerely repent, how does it stop being adultery? I take Jesus Word as he said it! Pornography can never be and should never be considered. There is no excuse for sin. Marriage is a higher standard ,Than just committing a sin, it affects generation after generation. I believe if a woman feels a man has betrayed her. I believe that a woman should divorce. I wouldl suggest that you find a counselor who can help you through your own recovery process. Many many women will meet the clinical criterai for PTSD in situations like this, but so often receive little support in recovery. Find a counselor , f ind a trauma-focused group , get online with Bloom. Make sure you get the help you need in healing. Peace, Kay. When a man makes love with his wife they become one flesh the first time when they go to bed together…. Know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? Hi Luke. First, I want to thank you for your article. I have one troubling question but first, I need to provide some background. I was guilty of porn use during my first marriage. The day my wife and I were married, I knew she was truly in love with me. Sadly, it was not mutual. Although I cared for her deeply, I was not in love with her, but that would change as time went on. I had been a committed Christian for almost 20 years prior to meeting my wife so pornography was never even on my radar. So how did it make its ingress? Due to fundamental incompatibility issues, our marriage was tumultuous from its inception. Any married couple will tell you that the first few years are the rockiest, as adjustments are being made on both sides. But for us, things never really improved. The numerous problems we experienced during our engagement should have alerted us to the fact that we were making a big mistake. Truth is, we did realize it, but we went through with it anyway. My response was that my failure to show her love was the result of her not respecting me, but it was more than that. She was lazy, irresponsible, immature as any of our marriage councilors would have told you , and because her parents coddled her all her life, she had no sense of independence; a quality, very attractive to me. So my usual attitude toward her was one of marginalization. I knew that I needed to be more understanding and nurturing, but those mental and emotional resources were just not available to me during those early years because I was dealing with my own internal struggle, and I need to stress that it was no small issue. I want to make it clear at this point that at no time in our marriage did I ever hit her, call her names, or belittle her in any way. There was just this fundamental disconnect between us, and my failure to be the loving Christian husband God called me to be. I need to be honest about that. Although sex was more frequent in the beginning, its frequency gradually decreased as the years went on. As ironic as it might sound, the truth is, I was intensely attracted to her sexually. But in the context of perpetual conflict and discord, there seemed to be this prodigious wall between the intimacy I wanted with her, and my ability to approach her for it. This wall was erected pretty early on in the marriage, and with no other way to gratify my desire for her, I would usually resort to masturbating without porn. And yet even when doing so, my thoughts where almost always centered around her. As best as I know my heart, I believe I can say that had our marriage provided the grounds in which sexual activity could have flourished, pornography could not have possibly occurred. There simply would have been no context for it. However, some clubs, particularly in London, charged a house fee for the dancers to perform and had an increased number of dancers, which reduced an individual dancer's earnings. Between and , there were approximately forty-five refusals of licences for sexual entertainment venues in England and Wales, mainly on the grounds that the locality was unsuitable. The number of refusals, together with the costs of licence application, means that there have been few new businesses opened since , with the overall number of clubs declining over time as a number of local authorities implemented a "nil limit" for new clubs. In February , Fiona Mactaggart MP for Slough asked the Secretary of State for Work and Pensions , Iain Duncan Smith , if he would "make it his policy not to offer job subsidies for employing teenagers as auxiliary workers in adult entertainment establishments". At that time, lap dancing clubs in Scotland were licensed under Section 41 of the Civic Government Scotland Act , which covers general entertainment licenses, and licences in Scotland could not be refused on the basis of the nature of the entertainment in itself. It commissioned the market research organisation Ipsos MORI to examine the public's attitudes towards adult entertainment, [47] completed site visits and took evidence from a variety of witnesses. Respondents to the group's consultation included the Church of Scotland. The group concluded that lap dancing venues are a form of "commercial sexual exploitation The Scottish Government accepted a number of the recommendations, but it rejected the idea that licensing boards should be able to determine whether full nudity is appropriate in given locales. It also rejected the idea of a compulsory one-metre no-touching zone between dancer and customer, suggesting that this would be unenforceable. It did, however, propose to enable licensing boards to consider nude dance venues as a separate class of venue. In the Scottish Government and carried out a consultation on the regulation of " sexual entertainment venues ". This came into effect in and requires local authorities in Scotland to set out individual policies with regard to the licensing of lap dancing clubs. Northern Ireland's first lap dancing club, Le Chic nightclub, with lap dancers mainly from Russia and the Baltic republics. The owner, Donegal businessman Jerome Brennan, owned a club in Dundalk , in the Republic of Ireland but near the border. He already owned a lap dancing club in Limerick in the Republic. The opening of the club was opposed by Rev. David McIlveen, a minister in the Free Presbyterian Church of Ulster , [56] and the club was often picketed by protesters from the Church [58] and women's groups. The economic position of lap dancers, as employees of the clubs, has also changed. Over time, most strip clubs have stopped paying the dancers. Stage dancing became a showcase to advertise the bodies of the dancers, whose money came from the tips or standard charges, depending on the club, that the patrons gave them for lap dancing. In the majority of clubs, dancers are simply charged a percentage of their nightly takings. However, the latest development in many countries, including Great Britain, the United States and Canada, is that many clubs charge dancers a "stage fee" or "tip-out", which is an amount that a dancer needs to pay a club usually in advance in order to work on a given night, per shift. Given that dancers are basically paying for the privilege to be at a club, some clubs allow as many dancers as possible to appear on any given night, increasing competition among the dancers. Also, the vast majority of clubs will not waive this charge if a night happens to be slow. Consequently, the dancer either leaves her shift without any profit or builds a debt to the club. In the U. This status has repeatedly been challenged by some dancers. While labor commissions and the courts have, for the most part, ruled that exotic dancers are employees and deserving of reimbursement for back pay and stage fees, [3] [61] some court decisions have decided that an exotic dancer can be classified as an independent contractor. In June , in Tracy Buel v. A publication called the California Employment Law Letter described the case as follows: The appellate court, however, after applying a factor test, upheld the jury's verdict in favor of the nightclub and its owners and found that the evidence weighed in favor of classifying the dancer as an independent contractor rather than an employee. A UK study on lap dancing found that the overwhelming majority of those surveyed were satisfied with their work, because they got to choose their own hours, got paid instantly, got more money than in other available jobs, and had the opportunity to combine "fun and work" e. As well, while most felt safe, almost half of the dancers had faced frequent verbal harassment and unwanted touching from patrons. Another issue raised by the dancers was their lack of labour rights in the workplace and the high overhead costs — house fees or stage fees , commissions, fines whether paid directly to the club's management or not , and tipping out or paying a portion of their income to DJs and bouncers. The UK paper The Guardian gave a darker portrait of lap dancing in an article partly based on an interview with a former stripper. Critics of lap dancing choose to describe it as a type of sex work , because, in their opinion, "it is difficult to discern between the performance of erotic dance and prostitution. In its report, Inappropriate Behaviour: Elena supports the calls for a change in licensing legislation. For me, I suppose, the question is always, why would you want somebody to take their clothes off for you when you know that they don't really fancy you, when you know it isn't what they really want to do? The sex industry doesn't just tell lies about women. One of its biggest lies is that it is positive for men. Statistics show that addiction to the porn and sex industries is the third biggest cause of debt in the UK, while sex and relationship therapists are seeing an increase in the number of men suffering from sex addiction. Does Elena think lap-dancing is damaging to men too? I don't think that it makes anybody happier". One body of research on strip clubs in the US found that all dancers had suffered verbal harassment and physical and sexual abuse while at work; all had been propositioned for prostitution; and three-quarters had been stalked by men associated with the club. Was Elena ever verbally abused, or propositioned for prostitution? 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Thanks for the heads up about Doug Wilson. I have no doubt they will. All we can do is do our best to articulate the position as it is meant to be followed. All a bit on the extreme side of the Patriarchal Movement and Covenant Theology, and many in that movement are being found to be guilty of affairs and other gross sin. I personally steer clear of those guys and choose to stay a bit more mainstream these days. Not all preachers associated with that click to see more are the same on this matter, but I find in general that they are very unfair toward women in troubled marriages.

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All I can do is pray for him and love him love him love him. But anyway, any good book to send his way? Great question. Your son ought to be grieving over your divorce because it is a sad thing. That said, he should not stay in a state of toxic grief.

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I would encourage him to really delve into any good resources about the fatherhood of God. That is a sad situation and heartbreaking for a Mom. Dear Luke, I am both heartened and disheartened by your post. I have an M. After working many years as an actress in musical theater and then turning 40 oops — too old to be valuable I began a long journey into seeing the arts for the exploitation industry it Help women leave erotic dancing addiction.

Google the speech. You will be shocked at what a true prophet he was. Interestingly, Philo T. Fransworth, the inventor of the cathode ray tube and father of television, would not even have one in his house once he saw how it was being used.

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He also is an alcoholic and lies about so many things. Am I to be nlamed for sexual abandonment since I cannot go there at all anymore? Great, great, great! I was with you all along the way. I guess my question stems around the Christian man who is repentant yet struggling…forever struggling…forever…struggling. What is the toll she must pay to love like Christ, but not be able to partake or enjoy any of the deepness that marriage is supposed to bring? When she looks into the eyes of her husband, those of her children and more importantly to the cross, divorce is not an option for her. Like the last part of the article talks about, when it comes to discerning hardness of heart, God has given us the body of Christ to come alongside us and use his means of grace. I would want the wife to also be in counseling for herself so she could process her own emotions. Second, out of that environment of help, I think it is best that those involved use discernment to see if this man is really hardhearted—just using grace as a license to sin. No woman should have to stand alone in figuring this kind of stuff out. She needs wise and compassionate counselors around her. I agree with you as I said in the article grounds for divorce does not mean necessary divorce. Some good friends of mine did that. Divorce ended up being, for them, the catalyst that drove them to the end of themselves and brought about real change in the heart. Hearse a Couple for Twenty years 4 Children The Maeeiage started to Change for the worst some 9 years ago the wife had no answer as to why she just noticed something was Very off in their Relationship. No Intmasey , no expressions of a loving husband only when he wanted something , Done nothing with the children Totally self Centred Any way after been found out to have had a lifelong Addiction to Pornography , well the running started and the Blaming Started and is still going. What are my options? God help me please! I came across this article recently, and it might be helpful to you as well: You know, we are not slaves to sin. We are not required to submit to sin or live under its control. I am in this same situation April! Since it has been 2 years since you posted this do you have any new insights? I am disgusted at the thought of my husband even touching me now and sex feels gross, not special anymore. Sex has become less and less meaningful every time I hear of a relapse over the last 16 years. I feel like I am stuck in this marriage because I am a Christian. Peace and freedom, Kay. I am praying for you, and understand completely. Thanks for your comment. In my isolation, comments like yours are like a tiny shaft of light in the darkness. Marianne, KD, Rena, April and all the other women who are have been in the same boat, my heart breaks with yours. It is truly gut wrenching to feel day after day that you are not enough. To experience the cycle countless times, begging and holding out hope that was the last time. While the rest of your friends argue about their husband not helping with the kids or not being clean enough, your heart is quietly breaking wishing that was the most of your worries. Until my heart became hard. I know God can make the impossible possible, and I know he can restore all things new. I know that regardless of God telling you not to marry a specific person, that once you are married that is his plan for your life. When you are dragged in circles time after time? Rhetorical It is just so hard to comprehend and not long for something else, a do-over. I live in Moscow Idaho, the home of Doug Wilson. His wife divorced him with the full blessing of Doug Wilson. The justification was porn use. Top Gun. The man watched Top Gun and Doug Wilson recommended his wife divorce him for it. I am a big fan of covenant eyes and what you guys do, but do realize that your article is promoting ideas that are already being used to justify the unjustifiable. The ideas you are articulating moving away from the traditional requirement of physical adultery for divorce can, will and are being abused. Thanks for the heads up about Doug Wilson. I have no doubt they will. All we can do is do our best to articulate the position as it is meant to be followed. All a bit on the extreme side of the Patriarchal Movement and Covenant Theology, and many in that movement are being found to be guilty of affairs and other gross sin. I personally steer clear of those guys and choose to stay a bit more mainstream these days. Not all preachers associated with that movement are the same on this matter, but I find in general that they are very unfair toward women in troubled marriages. Luke, just wondered if you know of a book for my grown adult Son who is really in depression, grieving over our divorcing. His Dad was born and raised in the church, and has been a sex addict since he was His dad was very much living a double life. We were married 41 years. All I can do is pray for him and love him love him love him. But anyway, any good book to send his way? Great question. Your son ought to be grieving over your divorce because it is a sad thing. That said, he should not stay in a state of toxic grief. I would encourage him to really delve into any good resources about the fatherhood of God. That is a sad situation and heartbreaking for a Mom. Dear Luke, I am both heartened and disheartened by your post. I have an M. After working many years as an actress in musical theater and then turning 40 oops — too old to be valuable I began a long journey into seeing the arts for the exploitation industry it is. Google the speech. You will be shocked at what a true prophet he was. Interestingly, Philo T. Fransworth, the inventor of the cathode ray tube and father of television, would not even have one in his house once he saw how it was being used. I did intense studies of the portrayal of women in the arts and the only consistent measurable data found was they had to be young, thin, and beautiful — and willing to flaunt their assets to move ahead in the industry. Guess what, her career tanked from there. Enter my research into the Internet, with another degree in Multimedia and Design. I saw what was happening to women in the ad industry: I was 45, they we Visual sex sells even if it is phony. Suffice to say the point was lost on the young males of the species. The point of this being that men arrogantly will mentally use the visual image to initially fantasize the encounter and place themselves into the sex scene with another woman. They physically ejaculate imagining themselves physically one with the other woman. Is it divorce worthy? Hence, this is grounds for divorce. When will we take this seriously? It is crack! Strip clubs are next, followed by teasing with the idea of a prostitute and eventually the encounter takes place. Or an affair. Or both. Well, neither are you the hunk of burning love from your 20s! Can reconciliation happen? Is it preferable? The answer is only sometimes yes. On discovery day the man is relieved of the dead rotting corpse he is dragging around — but he puts that burden on his wife and now she has to carry around the insecurity of not being young, pretty or skinny enough, not being chosen, and not being able to tell when her husband is lying to her because he spent years developing a talent for deception and fraud. It would seem you agree. That said, Jesus also sees hardness of heart to be another key in the whole matter. Did God divorce Israel after single instances of lust for other gods? We should not see grounds for divorce as lone acts of indiscretion after which repentance is heartily pursued. We do this not because we think these sins are unharmful. We do this because we desire to emulate God in his fidelity to His people. Your last paragraph sums up where I am right now so well that I am crying as I write this. All the PhDs, Scholars, and Professionals in the world, with their oh-so-savvy biblical interpretations, have no right to declare that a woman has no grounds for divorce to a porn addict for even the first offence. The damage to me is permanent, regardless of whether I stay or not. I forever know I am unable to measure up to the real and fake beauty of porn images which my husband is surely thinking about with every kiss and touch. He risked his marriage, his reputation among family on both sides, his relationships with his friends, and most importantly the love of his wife, all for self-gratification of sex by proxy. That is extremely selfish and hard-hearted, and shows where his priorities are. My relationship is forever changed, whether I stay married or not. I may never fully trust him and I question his love, probably always will feel insecure in trust and love for any man the rest of my life. I question his sincerity. Is he crying because he got caught, or because he is repentant? Is it adultery? He has turned to other women for sexual satisfaction. What I am feeling now is on the same scale as being cheated on physically. Hey there. A discovery like this is devastating. Many, many women who go through this will meet the criteria for PTSD. He needs a CSAT certified therapist. Groups can help too: As terrible as this is right now, I do want to let you know that men CAN change. It takes time and commitment and a whole lot of personal responsibility, but it can happen. It happened in my marriage. My own story is that our marriage is exponentially better today than it ever was before my husband got into porn. When we choose to turn toward Home, God redeems. I hope your husband makes that choice! Meanwhile, get the support that you need to be healthy as you go forward. Way to go, Annie!! Beautifully expressed! Actually, I think that a husband who masturbates imagining himself having sex with any woman other than his wife breaks, not just two commandments, but four: Oh my gosh Annie! I am so very sorry my dear sister. First, we start out weeping and asking why. I so wanted this blessing for us. I remember writing in my Bible something that I had read shortly after I found out about the affair and echoed my feelings at the time. Whatever you loathed about yourself, now defines you. The loss of your basic sense of self is an injury that cuts much deeper than the infidelity itself. Then we get angry at the person that is causing all this pain because we feel like an animal caught in a trap, writhing in agony and our husband, like a bystander, looks on with only emptiness in his eyes. I loved my husband but there was nothing that I could say that would change him. But he was already gone; already given over to his sin. But we so want it to change Lord. How many hours spent crying and praying? You out there know the answer. When you thought that your heart could take not one little bit more of pain, you reminded yourself that the Lord will give you the strength you need. That promise is the only thing that kept you going. I was so grateful for that promise fulfilled. I was so grateful for all the promises I read. To be like Job with faith that makes you an inspiration to thousands upon thousands and generation upon generations. But Job, like us, was only human. He had questions to ask that God did not answer. WE know the reason he suffered as he did. And even when his questions went unanswered, and God chastised him, he walked away from all that humbled and praising God. You grieve because you have lost someone you loved. You say goodbye to the hope of having a loving relationship with this man. You know that neither of you are perfect. But you know what hurt more than any one other thing? It was the lies. The lies create such a reality from Hell. All you want to do is run to remove yourself from the chaos. Truth cries out, but am I the only one who hears her? My emotions are raw and I struggle to push the pain down further, just so I can function for the day; just so I can bring some normalcy to the two children I love so much. But one little brush with physical pain releases all that sorrow. It must be heard. But there are no words that pour forth; only groaning because there are no words. My Father in heaven understands what those sounds are saying and He is holding me. We long for someone on earth that we can trust and it should be the greatest example of trust with the one we are married to. Someone who knows us and we know them. To be like Adam and Eve, unashamed before the one you love. I am so grateful for all the characteristics that God formed in men. I believe that a man compliments me; that we are meant to be together. When a man looks you in the eye after he tells you how much he loves you and lies when you know he is lying, there is something that takes flight and you wonder if there will ever be a time when you will be able to see trust returning on the horizon. And it is that inability to trust that makes you feel the most dead. Because that is what we live in and I have to remind myself of that all the time. I must run this race with endurance with my eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and finisher of my faith. Help me Jesus to accept what I cannot change and be a witness for You. May I never do anything to bring Your name shame. Give me the strength to trust again; to love as You love. Help me to accept that the only true joy will not be found here apart from being in Your company. Help me to heal. Help all those women out there to heal. May what they have suffered and the words of comfort on their lips be the cool drink they can offer another in pain. Thank you for your Son, Jesus Christ who will one day dress us in beauty and present us spotless to His Father. May the Holy Spirit comfort you as only He can. So, all my sisters in Christ, may the Lord bless thee. May He make His face to shine upon thee and give you peace. May the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you all: I am married for the last 10 years and discovered that my husband was addicted to porn about 2 years into the marriage. He convinced me that everyone does it and that I am over reacting. My libido has always been higher than his. I felt dirty and on the few occasions that we had sex, I did not feel any connection with him. I won a few beauty pageants and look very well after myself. Not that it should matter. I kept on doubting myself. But thinking back after 10 years and being more mature, I suspect that he was watching porn again that time. Few months later I found teen porn on his laptop. I hit the roof, he swore that he would never do that again. 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There is a wonderful side to my Husband but when my trust and respect for him are gone, as they are now, I feel horribly alone. It was easier to be verbally and physically abused. I KNEW what to expect. This jumps out after or before what has been or should be our most happiest moments as a couple. I am unable to gain satisfaction intimately with him anymore. I feel even THAT is one sided. We were baptized the same day just a month ago and since then have discovered he is keeping money from me, lying about how it is spent and found him with porn 3 times. Just the week before last, after being unable to speak with him for three days in an effort to refrain from saying damaging things, he was full of heartfelt apologies and wished for therapy for himself. A huge part of me just wants to kick him out and be done with it but I want so badly to follow the Word because I DO believe that is the single most important thing I can do. I wish I could have instant clarity on this. First of all, let me say that as a counselor, I do conceptualize pornography use as a form of abuse. Many, many women in this situation will meet the criteria for PTSD. When we treat PTSD, our very first clinical concern is getting the victim to safety so that they are not being retraumatized and so that healing can begin. That to me often means separation to see if the husband will recover AND to give the wife time to heal and create healthy boundaries, followed by reconciliation if possible, divorce if necessary. And this is the problem I find in the approach that so many religious approaches take. You give a tenth of your spices—mint, dill and cumin. But you have neglected the more important matters of the law—justice, mercy and faithfulness. You should have practiced the latter, without neglecting the former. But forgiveness does not mean automatic reconciliation! Forgiveness does not mean you ignore reality and stick your head in the ground! Forgiveness sometimes means releasing that person who refuses to take the opportunity of forgiveness to repent and work toward reconciliation. Forgiveness does not control the other person, and it is not a magic wand. I do think a counselor could be a help to you, but only if you feel safe and supported. If you feel forced—by any counselor or church—into staying in a situation that feels WORSE than your previously abusive marriage, then I think that counselor or church is out of line, no matter what kind of Bible verse they trot out. Carole, get out. Your husband sounds very wicked and unwilling to repent. Death severs the bond. Why argue if the obvious if the the word IS narrowed to fornication during betrothal? Would this interpretation cause a problem for you? I know it has for me. The correct definition of marriage is not what the world wants to hear. This is how marriage was done under the Mosaic law. Why would Luke need to mention that Joseph was already her husband if the Greeks knew nothing or cared little for Jewish betrothal customs? Why then did He make a new covenant with His wife, Israel? Read the entire book of Jeremiah, in particular chapter That is a poor exegete of the text. The Lord was using divorce allegorically with Israel. Mt Earthly marriage is the representation in the flesh of eternal marriage in the spirit. In fact, all the Lord teaches on marriage is specific to understanding the Gospel. Why did He not use porneia? Well, the commandment is thou shall not commit adultery. Divorce changes the definition of marriage from a covenant, to a contract. Believing that a divorce can end a covenant and a that remarriage to another is acceptable, is basically sanctifying adultery. The word would have been moichea adultery. Except on the ground of moicheia? It is just a worthless piece of paper. On your comments to Roman 7: And what is the marriage law? As it was in the beginning pre-sin , or as it was at the time of Moses after the fall during the time of a hardhearted nation? If marriage TODAY, is as it was in the beginning, then you can understand why Paul used marriage as the example to illustrate the Gospel and the law. Verse 15 does not free a spouse to divorce and remarry. You are adding to the text. Verse 15 gives a spouse peace to know that they are no longer unequally-yoked to an unbeliever. It also gives a spouse peace to know that they are not guilty of sin. No where will you find that we are to disregard an unbeliever as having no hope of salvation through the Lord Jesus Christ. Since an abandoning spouse is unrepentant, he or she cannot even divorce and remarry. Regardless of their background Thus, you would have us believe that a believing spouse would no longer be required to love his or her prodigal spouse, or that the vow to love them is no longer necessary? Do you understand the Gospel? Divorce is telling a spouse you will never forgive him or her. The point the Lord makes about marriage is this: If you choose to divorce, proving that your hearts are hard, then remain unmarried until one or both of you die. Did you know that kindness leads to repentance? Remaining in marriage is the only way that glorifies God. God hates divorce, and so should we. Instead, the false church has provided all kinds of loopholes to live for the gratification of the flesh and not to remain in the spirit of Christ. In marriage, a husband is to love his wife as Christ loves the church. You would have us believe that marriage is separate from understanding the mystery of the Gospel, yet that is exactly how Paul views marriage. It does not surprise me that you have quoted Instone-Brewer, as he has twisted the word of God to validate divorce and remarriage for any reason. I pray that the Holy Spirit would convict you to see the clear picture of one-flesh covenant marriage. The world will divorce and remarry, those who are truly in Christ will believe that a vow before God is far more eternally important than any man can tell, and that marriage, and remaining in marriage, can only ever be a true witness to the Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ. You and I both agree that Jesus held a very conservative view of marriage—far more conservative than his contemporaries and far more conservative than most hold today. You and I both agree that church discipline is very important when considering troubles in marriage I say as much in my article. The term has a very broad definition throughout the New Testament. We both agree the term can have a narrower definition if the context demands it. You clearly think the context demands it in Matthew 19, and I do not see more on that below. We disagree about the relevance of the Joseph and Mary account. The competitive school of thought by Rabbi Shammai believed divorce was only permissible after some kind of sexual indecency such as like adultery. The Pharisees specifically ask Jesus in Matthew 19 if he agrees with dominant Hillel position, to which he replies that he does not. In the context of the rabbinic debate, it would have been the most natural thing in the world to assume Jesus was using a broad definition of porneia. We disagree about the reason why Luke or Mark did not include the exception clause. You think it is because the Greek cared little about Jewish betrothal customs, whereas Matthew writing to a Jewish audience would care a great deal. I disagree because the Greeks and Romans had betrothal customs of their own that would have made a statement about breaking betrothal contract very appropriate. We disagree about the message of Jeremiah I do believe God divorced Israel—as he said he did. The northern 10 tribes were largely diseased and underwent incredible judgment. We disagree about the significance of Jeremiah We disagree about Genesis 2: Yes, Jesus quotes it to the Pharisees, but the question is why. Not because it talks about divorce, but because he wants the Pharisees to know that it is God who joins to people together in marriage. You and I disagree about the relevance of Matthew 5: You and I disagree about the relationship between porneia and moichea. You and I disagree about 1 Corinthians 7: That person is as free as the single person. You and I disagree about divorce and hardheartedness. Getting a divorce does not mean one is hardhearted. In fact, I specifically state the guidance in my article warning against this. I thank you for the discussion, however. Luke, As a pastor, I deal with this issue on a regular basis. I would greatly appreciate finding out where I can obtain a copy of your thesis. Thank you. If he is still distributing copies of the thesis, he will get back to you. Luke, it is very clear that your position defends divorce and remarriage just like the Pharisees defended divorce and remarriage. You will have to answer one day to all the people you deceived. I pray you repent before that day comes. You have been warned. Agreed 2. The real choice as you understand is to use the word adultery.. Fornication during betrothal makes the wife not a virgin on the consummation day of the marriage. A man could write a divorce decree if she lied about being a virgin. This is the point. The Lord is instructing the Pharisees during their time period, and this is not applicable today. I will tell you why. Because there are loopholes one can twist and turn to make marriage anything but a one-flesh covenant for life. Read early work on marriage by pre-Constitine Christians. Nearly every single one believes that it is adultery to remarry after divorce! Jer It is a spiritual allegory and to use this to validate your position is deceptive. Gen 2: This is what the Lord is telling us. The law of marriage is as it was in the beginning, not as it was at the time of Mosaic law. According to your understanding of porniea, that is the word that the LORD should have used in these verses. You can sugar-coat the Greek all you want, you can tell me you are a GREEK expert, but the truth is scripture is ONLY understood by the power of the Holy Spirit, and the words used as you use them do not corroborate with other passages, let alone does your understanding of marriage corroborate with the Gospel. That contradicts verses and 39 of the same chapter. It also contradicts the Gospel. Then you deny the Lord becasue He said Moses allowed divorced for the hardhearted. Divorce is NOT applicable today for the New Testament believer and teach otherwise is eternally damning! Divorce takes all credibility away from what God made good! And so do you! Thank you for sharpening my thinking and my ability to articulate my thoughts. Blessings to you, brother. Hi Luke, Icommented earlier on what i think of porn. I noticed your ongoing discussion wtih Neil in which he keeps saying that he believes remarriage is always adultery. I am wondering if in your theses you cover what to do in situations where one may hve wrongfully remarried? Folks like Neil also tend to believe that if the new marriage is on questionable grounds it must be broken up. I have to admit I wonder that too. If one is an a wrong remarriage and you sincerely repent, how does it stop being adultery? I take Jesus Word as he said it! Pornography can never be and should never be considered. There is no excuse for sin. Marriage is a higher standard ,Than just committing a sin, it affects generation after generation. I believe if a woman feels a man has betrayed her. I believe that a woman should divorce. I wouldl suggest that you find a counselor who can help you through your own recovery process. Many many women will meet the clinical criterai for PTSD in situations like this, but so often receive little support in recovery. Find a counselor , f ind a trauma-focused group , get online with Bloom. Make sure you get the help you need in healing. Peace, Kay. When a man makes love with his wife they become one flesh the first time when they go to bed together…. Know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? Hi Luke. First, I want to thank you for your article. I have one troubling question but first, I need to provide some background. I was guilty of porn use during my first marriage. The day my wife and I were married, I knew she was truly in love with me. Sadly, it was not mutual. Although I cared for her deeply, I was not in love with her, but that would change as time went on. I had been a committed Christian for almost 20 years prior to meeting my wife so pornography was never even on my radar. So how did it make its ingress? Due to fundamental incompatibility issues, our marriage was tumultuous from its inception. Any married couple will tell you that the first few years are the rockiest, as adjustments are being made on both sides. But for us, things never really improved. The numerous problems we experienced during our engagement should have alerted us to the fact that we were making a big mistake. Truth is, we did realize it, but we went through with it anyway. My response was that my failure to show her love was the result of her not respecting me, but it was more than that. She was lazy, irresponsible, immature as any of our marriage councilors would have told you , and because her parents coddled her all her life, she had no sense of independence; a quality, very attractive to me. So my usual attitude toward her was one of marginalization. I knew that I needed to be more understanding and nurturing, but those mental and emotional resources were just not available to me during those early years because I was dealing with my own internal struggle, and I need to stress that it was no small issue. I want to make it clear at this point that at no time in our marriage did I ever hit her, call her names, or belittle her in any way. There was just this fundamental disconnect between us, and my failure to be the loving Christian husband God called me to be. I need to be honest about that. Although sex was more frequent in the beginning, its frequency gradually decreased as the years went on. As ironic as it might sound, the truth is, I was intensely attracted to her sexually. But in the context of perpetual conflict and discord, there seemed to be this prodigious wall between the intimacy I wanted with her, and my ability to approach her for it. This wall was erected pretty early on in the marriage, and with no other way to gratify my desire for her, I would usually resort to masturbating without porn. And yet even when doing so, my thoughts where almost always centered around her. As best as I know my heart, I believe I can say that had our marriage provided the grounds in which sexual activity could have flourished, pornography could not have possibly occurred. There simply would have been no context for it. The frustration of wanting intimacy, and yet feeling as though it was inaccessible, eventually took its toll, and that finally lead to the porn. I need to reiterate that although I resorted to it periodically in moments of abject frustration, it never consumed me. Regular sexual activity with my wife would have been far more preferable. The times my wife and I were intimate were exceedingly more stimulating, pleasurable, and fulfilling than porn could ever be or ever was. If porn was a candle, intimacy with my wife, when it occurred, was a bonfire. I should probably also mention that I myself am an above average looking guy. I had numerous opportunities to engage in extramarital affairs, and despite our problems, they were never even considered. One time I was propositioned by a very attractive woman at work. She was being coy about it, and so in an effort to not offend her unnecessarily, I just played dumb. I mention these things only highlife the fact that as a Christian, I took marital fidelity with the utmost seriousness. After 10 years of constant tension and strife, we were both getting tired. Statistics show that addiction to the porn and sex industries is the third biggest cause of debt in the UK, while sex and relationship therapists are seeing an increase in the number of men suffering from sex addiction. Does Elena think lap-dancing is damaging to men too? I don't think that it makes anybody happier". 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Britney spears butt crack bikini. Each woman has the right to decide for herself if she wants out. You should really have a forum on here too and let women and men to have a place to share about specific things in their lives. Was it my treatment of a specific passage of concept? Hi Luke, If reconciliation is always the goal, is this still true for a couple who are unequally yoked? My situation is simple, we were married while not being true believers. I became saved, my husband completely rejects Jesus and the church and has an extreme porn addiction that he believes he is entitled to and does not plan on changing. What am I left to do? Paul makes as much clear in 1 Corinthians 7: Reconciliation is a good goal, but it takes two people to make this happen. Have you been able to confide in anyone at your church about this? Luke, thank you for your article. I have experienced a very strange twist of the story you wrote. Basically, I am considering divorcing my wife because of her unforgiving heart and desertion. Let me know if you would want to hear the story. It also involves the church poorly handling church discipline. I would love to hear the story, yes. I would be interested in your thoughts about a man who has many porn relapses, but is always very repentant and sorry seemingly genuine each time. But he is a serial porn user. You fit Matt Great question, Mark. Obviously, this question is a generality, and specific details matter a great deal. What was the fruit of that repentance? Did it involve distancing oneself from porn and the temptation to look at it? Or was it merely in words only? If distancing happened, in what way? What barricades were put in place? How did this man get through those barricades? Did his repentance involve restitution with the spouse? Did it involve confession to spiritual mentors in the church who can assist? Second, I would want to know how the church has been involved in this process. Ideally, trusted church members would be involved in this situation, offering counsel, advice, discipleship, and, at times, rebuke and discipline. I would ask those people their assessment of the situation. As the end of my article indicates, the God-given means of discerning hardness of heart is process of church discipline outlined by Jesus, so that would matter a great deal in how we assess the situation. Do you think that Jesus meant that a person who marries a divorced woman commits adultery? Can a woman who was divorced by her husband and is the innocent party remarry? Jesus said that if they divorce their wives unfairly they cause them to commit adultery. This has restrained me from seeking to remarry. Jesus was speaking at a time in history when women had absolutely no power. Women were property. They did not marry by their own choice, but rather at the will of their family patriarch. Men could divorce women for any reason whatsover, and then the woman would be without any kind of support unless her family gave her to another man. You can imagine the potential scenario: Jesus was calling society forward, toward more justice, toward more mercy. Our current model of marriage is quite different, of course, but women and men still find themselves being victimized in different ways. I think if Jesus spoke today, he would still be interested in treating victims with mercy and justice, rather than as throw-away people. This by the way was one month after our marriage and claims to hate God if he is real. His porn is everyday all day long, even while at school. His porn has escalated to some seriously disturbing stuff and uses it to attempt to control and abuse me. Which at the moment we are at least miles away from my family, because of our relationship I have no friends and my education has been placed on hold to serve him. Other than a godly love and desire to see him saved I have no love left for him and know that unless God calls him, removes his blinders and softens his heart I know it can be done this will be my whole life… any advice would be greatly appreciated?! Hi there. Let me give you a couple of links to articles on boundaries, here and here. Many many wives in situations like yours will meet the clinical criteria for PTSD post traumatic stress disorder. A separation can be a step toward healing, actually, if your husband were to take the opportunity to get into recovery. Sometimes guys do take the opportunity that a separation offers, and start to deal with their problems. Sometimes not. I would recommend finding a therapist who can help you process your emotions and think about those healthy boundaries. You might want to look for someone who has experience in counseling survivors of domestic abuse. I realise this is an old thread. Just wondering if the thesis has been uploaded to this site or if an email copy is still possible? To define it ANY other way is a lie and subverting from the truth that marriage is a one-flesh covenant which can only end in death. Also, it is very important to understand the covenant vow as it pertains to the life of those who are in Christ and how this person loves the unrepentant sinner. Also, whenever one makes a direct assumption of scripture, it must corroborate with other scripture on topic. It would be a greater witness to the body of Christ, and the witness to a fallen and wicked world to remain in a one-flesh covenant until the death or repentance of a prodigal spouse. This Gospel rendition views a sposue as loving a sinner while they are yet a sinner, and as the kindness of God leads to repentance, so too will the love of a spouse be a witness to a fallen spouse who desperately needs the Lord. Eph 5: You wrote: One commits adultery if the marriage was divorced after the marriage was a consummated one-flesh covenant. You may counter with, one may marry a divorced woman which was divorced because she committed sexual immorality, but that conflicts with marrying someone who did not show fruits of repentance. Would you honestly marry a woman who was in unrepentant sexual immorality? If it did, why is it adultery to marry her? This corroborates with Roman 7: Also, Mark Mark The majority also crucified the Lord. It just basically means the majority is wrong…. I am not a Protestant nor am I a Roman Catholic either…. I love you enough to tell you the truth. The church needs to preach, teach, live and represent marriage permanence, one man and one woman for life. I also believe no sinner is without hope if the Lord Jesus Christ is alive. Do you agree? Thanks for the lengthy comments. You seem to believe a one-flesh union can never or should never be broken. Only death severs this bond. My opinion is based largely on what the word porneia actually means. In the Septuagint, porneia and its verbal counterpart porneuo are consistently used to translate a Hebrew term referring to sexual intercourse, often with reference to prostitution. Most Greek lexicons treat it as a broad term for any kind of extra-marital sexual intercourse, incestuous marriages, prostitution, unchastity, or fornication. The definition of the word can be narrowed by the context, of course, but should we narrow the definition of the word in this instance Matthew 19 to a specific kind of sexual sin? Does the context demand this? No, I see no reason to do this. First, there is no reason to assume Jesus cannot take a strong, conservative stance on marriage and still allow for divorce in certain limited instances. Second, and most importantly, the immediate context does not support the notion that premarital fornication is in view. The Pharisees were not discussing the breaking of betrothal contracts, and none of the passages cited by Jesus or the Pharisees are about betrothal. Genesis 2: But nothing rules out divorce here. If we made this statement absolute, then not even death could sever a marriage bond. All this is saying is that marriage unites two people in whole-life oneness. Divorce is not discussed at all. Matthew 1: I agree that premarital sex or sex during betrothal is an example of porneia, but I hardly see why this specific story restricts the meaning of the word in Matthew Certainly Joseph was within his legal and moral rights to call off his wedding, but I have a hard time seeing why this should force a narrow definition on a word that has a much broader meaning in the Greek language many chapters later. I address this issue in an above comment: Matthew 5: Here I believe the exception clause means that in the case where a woman commits porneia, she is already an adulterer, thus the divorce does not make her one—she is one already. Romans 7: For a Jewish woman who was desperately unhappy with her marriage, the death of her husband was the only hope she had. In Jewish law, she could not initiate a divorce unless her husband neglected one of the obligations of Exodus Her only hope was that her husband would die. So, Romans 7 is an illustration by which Paul described how Christ has released us from the Law. So, instead Christ releases us by his death, which we share in if we are united to Him. Our marriage to the Law ends when we die in Christ—and when we are raised with Him, we are free to be wed to him. Ephesians 5: One can forgive an erring, unrepentant spouse and still not be married to them. One can admonish the idle, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, do good to others, and be patient with all…and not be married to them. Thank you for publishing this. It used to be alcohol, drugs, gambling and porn or various combinations of those and now we are down to porn. I found out two weeks after we were married two and a half years ago been together for seven. His vows were lies, he knew who we was and chose to cover it up. There is a wonderful side to my Husband but when my trust and respect for him are gone, as they are now, I feel horribly alone. It was easier to be verbally and physically abused. I KNEW what to expect. This jumps out after or before what has been or should be our most happiest moments as a couple. I am unable to gain satisfaction intimately with him anymore. I feel even THAT is one sided. We were baptized the same day just a month ago and since then have discovered he is keeping money from me, lying about how it is spent and found him with porn 3 times. Just the week before last, after being unable to speak with him for three days in an effort to refrain from saying damaging things, he was full of heartfelt apologies and wished for therapy for himself. A huge part of me just wants to kick him out and be done with it but I want so badly to follow the Word because I DO believe that is the single most important thing I can do. I wish I could have instant clarity on this. First of all, let me say that as a counselor, I do conceptualize pornography use as a form of abuse. Many, many women in this situation will meet the criteria for PTSD. When we treat PTSD, our very first clinical concern is getting the victim to safety so that they are not being retraumatized and so that healing can begin. That to me often means separation to see if the husband will recover AND to give the wife time to heal and create healthy boundaries, followed by reconciliation if possible, divorce if necessary. And this is the problem I find in the approach that so many religious approaches take. You give a tenth of your spices—mint, dill and cumin. But you have neglected the more important matters of the law—justice, mercy and faithfulness. You should have practiced the latter, without neglecting the former. But forgiveness does not mean automatic reconciliation! Forgiveness does not mean you ignore reality and stick your head in the ground! Forgiveness sometimes means releasing that person who refuses to take the opportunity of forgiveness to repent and work toward reconciliation. Forgiveness does not control the other person, and it is not a magic wand. I do think a counselor could be a help to you, but only if you feel safe and supported. If you feel forced—by any counselor or church—into staying in a situation that feels WORSE than your previously abusive marriage, then I think that counselor or church is out of line, no matter what kind of Bible verse they trot out. Carole, get out. Your husband sounds very wicked and unwilling to repent. Death severs the bond. Why argue if the obvious if the the word IS narrowed to fornication during betrothal? Would this interpretation cause a problem for you? I know it has for me. The correct definition of marriage is not what the world wants to hear. This is how marriage was done under the Mosaic law. Why would Luke need to mention that Joseph was already her husband if the Greeks knew nothing or cared little for Jewish betrothal customs? Why then did He make a new covenant with His wife, Israel? Read the entire book of Jeremiah, in particular chapter That is a poor exegete of the text. The Lord was using divorce allegorically with Israel. Mt Earthly marriage is the representation in the flesh of eternal marriage in the spirit. In fact, all the Lord teaches on marriage is specific to understanding the Gospel. Why did He not use porneia? Well, the commandment is thou shall not commit adultery. Divorce changes the definition of marriage from a covenant, to a contract. Believing that a divorce can end a covenant and a that remarriage to another is acceptable, is basically sanctifying adultery. The word would have been moichea adultery. Except on the ground of moicheia? It is just a worthless piece of paper. On your comments to Roman 7: And what is the marriage law? As it was in the beginning pre-sin , or as it was at the time of Moses after the fall during the time of a hardhearted nation? If marriage TODAY, is as it was in the beginning, then you can understand why Paul used marriage as the example to illustrate the Gospel and the law. Verse 15 does not free a spouse to divorce and remarry. You are adding to the text. Verse 15 gives a spouse peace to know that they are no longer unequally-yoked to an unbeliever. It also gives a spouse peace to know that they are not guilty of sin. No where will you find that we are to disregard an unbeliever as having no hope of salvation through the Lord Jesus Christ. Since an abandoning spouse is unrepentant, he or she cannot even divorce and remarry. Regardless of their background Thus, you would have us believe that a believing spouse would no longer be required to love his or her prodigal spouse, or that the vow to love them is no longer necessary? Do you understand the Gospel? Divorce is telling a spouse you will never forgive him or her. The point the Lord makes about marriage is this: If you choose to divorce, proving that your hearts are hard, then remain unmarried until one or both of you die. Did you know that kindness leads to repentance? Remaining in marriage is the only way that glorifies God. God hates divorce, and so should we. Instead, the false church has provided all kinds of loopholes to live for the gratification of the flesh and not to remain in the spirit of Christ. In marriage, a husband is to love his wife as Christ loves the church. You would have us believe that marriage is separate from understanding the mystery of the Gospel, yet that is exactly how Paul views marriage. It does not surprise me that you have quoted Instone-Brewer, as he has twisted the word of God to validate divorce and remarriage for any reason. I pray that the Holy Spirit would convict you to see the clear picture of one-flesh covenant marriage. The world will divorce and remarry, those who are truly in Christ will believe that a vow before God is far more eternally important than any man can tell, and that marriage, and remaining in marriage, can only ever be a true witness to the Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ. You and I both agree that Jesus held a very conservative view of marriage—far more conservative than his contemporaries and far more conservative than most hold today. You and I both agree that church discipline is very important when considering troubles in marriage I say as much in my article. The term has a very broad definition throughout the New Testament. We both agree the term can have a narrower definition if the context demands it. You clearly think the context demands it in Matthew 19, and I do not see more on that below. We disagree about the relevance of the Joseph and Mary account. The competitive school of thought by Rabbi Shammai believed divorce was only permissible after some kind of sexual indecency such as like adultery. The Pharisees specifically ask Jesus in Matthew 19 if he agrees with dominant Hillel position, to which he replies that he does not. In the context of the rabbinic debate, it would have been the most natural thing in the world to assume Jesus was using a broad definition of porneia. We disagree about the reason why Luke or Mark did not include the exception clause. You think it is because the Greek cared little about Jewish betrothal customs, whereas Matthew writing to a Jewish audience would care a great deal. Charges for lap dances vary significantly. Depending on the local jurisdiction and community standards , lap dances can involve touching of the dancer by the patron, touching the patron by the dancer, neither, or both. In some clubs, any touching by the patron is forbidden. On the other hand, absent any oversight by the club, various levels of contact may be negotiable between the participants. Clubs vary widely with regard to whether they enforce their rules or turn a blind eye to any violations. There is some debate as to whether lap dancing is entertainment or a type of sex work. 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After all, this seems like a type of adultery to me. Am I wrong? When a woman has discovered her husband is entrenched in pornography, reactions can vary greatly, but for many women it is nothing short Help women leave erotic dancing addiction traumatic.

Time and space do not permit me to get into every detail of this text, but a few observations are important:. God is the one who unites husband and wife in whole-life oneness. Therefore, what God has joined together, man should not separate v.

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Marriage is meant to be a lifelong, loving covenant bond. As such, divorce was actually quite common among the Pharisees. Jesus uses similar logic in other divorce texts Matthew 5: Marriage must be Help women leave erotic dancing addiction with respect and reverence. Jesus nuances His view with an exception clause. The critical matter for our consideration is this: Would Jesus include pornography use as a divorcible offense? Generally, when I bump into those who think porn use can be grounds for divorce, I come across three very bad arguments.

In the past, the weakness of these arguments kept me firmly convinced that pornography in itself could never be biblical grounds for divorce. Bad Argument 1: Pornography is detrimental to a marriage, therefore it is grounds for divorce. I agree pornography can be detrimental to a marriage, but grounds for divorce ought not be determined by how Help women leave erotic dancing addiction a sin Help women leave erotic dancing addiction.

Some theologians want to stretch the definition of porneia to the breaking point, saying it encompasses all manner of offenses like emotional or physical abuse, blasphemy, or other generally destructive behavior. Jesus was thinking of sexual sins specifically. Viewing porn generally involves lust.

In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus said the man who looks at a woman lustfully commits adultery with her in his heart Matthew 5: Jesus also said adultery is grounds for divorce—if we take porneia to mean adultery Matthew 5: Therefore, it is argued, viewing porn must be grounds for divorce.

For instance, Jesus said to be innocent of murder is not enough; anger is also sinful and worthy judgment before the court and ultimately hellfire v.

Second, to suggest instances of lust provide grounds for divorce is to give nearly any spouse in the world grounds for divorce. Visit web page interpret a Greek term by how that term has impacted modern languages leads to illegitimate conclusions. This makes a mistake of chronology: Generally, the question tends to be phrased this way: Of course, answers to that question will vary depending on who you talk to.

In the Greek text, Jesus employs the word porneiawhich is capable of a broad range of meanings. The Divorce Dilemmap. Here were two conservative theologians saying essentially the same thing: Often, lexicons will define porneia as illicit or unsanctioned sexual intercourse or any sexual activity outside of marriage.

The word can also have a nuanced meaning determined by context—such as a specific kind of sexual sin like incest or prostitution. A widespread Protestant position on Matthew Nearly any kind of porneia you can name, when committed by a married person, is adulterous in effect. But there are many reasons to believe porneia is not merely a synonym for adultery—even though the terms are closely linked. In other words, porneia focuses on the violating attitude and actwhere as adultery Help women leave erotic dancing addiction on a common effect of this act.

The word porneia is also undeniably linked to the concept of prostitution. Prostitution was practiced all throughout the Mediterranean region, including Israel, Egypt, Chaldea, Phoenicia, Syria—and especially Greece and later Rome.

In the sixth century B. Throughout Greece, it was generally accepted that young men and even married men would frequent prostitutes. Rome essentially followed much of the Athenian model and developed laws to regulate prostitution. Prostitution in Rome complimented the article source sexual morals of the culture. But the sex Skinception before and after also had a vibrant and visible entertainment wing.

In a class of their own were the prostitutes that engaged in formal entertainment: These entertainers were common at Athenian Help women leave erotic dancing addiction and private parties. Ionian and Phrygian woman were widely know and at times well paid for their skills: Often they had other skills such as juggling, fencing, and acrobatics.

While these entertainers also worked the streets, they frequented Greek symposia parties for socializing, drinking, intellectual discussion, and entertainment. There are numerous references to erotic dancers in comedic and sympotic literature. While the erotic dancers, singers, and flute players of ancient Rome were specialized entertainers in their own right, they were, at the heart Help women leave erotic dancing addiction their profession, slave-prostitutes.

Their erotic performances at banquets and symposia were a manifestation of their trade—the sale of their bodies for the pleasure of freemen.

A lap dance or contact dance is a type of erotic dance performance offered in some strip clubs in which the dancer typically has body contact with a seated patron. Lap dancing is different from table dancingin which the dancer is close to a seated patron, but without body contact.

An analogy might bring some clarity to the question. At what point in the following series of scenarios does someone cease to be guilty of porneia? Drawing a hard line is no easy task. The change of physical proximity, timing, or labeling of the participants does not change the fact that in each scenario the man is seeking the services of prostituted women to immerse himself in a world of licentiousness.

In my studies about this issue, the million dollar question I kept asking is this: How does a person differentiate between the everyday lusts of the heart and the kind of Help women leave erotic dancing addiction Jesus says is a divorcible offense?

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Jesus replies with this statement: God permitted divorce under Moses, and still permits divorce, as a concession for the victims of partners with hard and stubborn hearts.

He threatens to divorce Judah just as He did Israel. In other words, if divorces must happen at all, they should happen according to pattern given to Help women leave erotic dancing addiction by God Himself.

The same is true of pornography use.

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Alone, instances of using pornography or even a habit of looking at porn are not the only factors to consider. Rather, it is critical to assess hardness of heart. Thus, we should not think of grounds for divorce as a solid line one crosses but rather a continuum of Help women leave erotic dancing addiction sexual rebellion. God was patient, but eventually He wrote Israel a bill of divorce and sent her away into exile because of her callousness.

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The words of Jesus in Matthew Here Jesus offers for His followers a model of confrontation in cases of persistent sin. If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. Help women leave erotic dancing addiction he listens to you, you have gained your brother. But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, that every charge may be established by the evidence of two or three witnesses.

If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector. If this final confrontation is met with stubborn refusal to listen, link result should be excommunication: As for the offended spouse, this process of Help women leave erotic dancing addiction discipline should serve as a divinely given means to both expose hardness of heart as well as push the erring person in one direction or another.

Vicki Tiede, in her book When Your Husband is Addicted to Pornographyadvocates for women to go through these three levels of confrontation prescribed in Matthew First, she asks women to consider their own hearts: She writes:. God can redeem your husband; you cannot. It is important churches and spouses avoid unnecessary extremes when it comes to church discipline. On one hand, it is best to keep the number of people involved deliberately small. To promise not to gossip or slander is biblical, but to promise click the following article only closes the door to future biblical discipline.

Churches should not rush Help women leave erotic dancing addiction process. Each stage of communication might take several meetings, especially if there are at least hints of cooperation from the offending spouse. Plus, only time will tell just how much the erring spouse has truly listened at any stage. The goal is not only the promise to stop the pornographic behavior, but the rebuilding of trust and intimacy in the marriage through changed behavior.

Tiede comments:. Rebuilding trust will probably take much longer than it will take to forgive. In my opinion, pornography use, when it is hardhearted and unrepentant, can certainly qualify as porneia and therefore grounds for divorce.

As the church we have a high calling to stand with couples in crisis and point them to the One whose love for His bride knows no end, whose justice is perfect, and whose grace increases more than all the infidelities in the world.

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I admit, before reading the full article, I immediately had an immense amount of fear in my heart that this article was going to provide fuel to all of the angry wives out there to immediately file Help women leave erotic dancing addiction divorce, including my own wife. I genuinely wanted repentance, but was too scared to ask for it, and somewhat uncaring enough to override my fears and do what it took to defeat this beast and change my heart. I am working very hard to be on the 10 side of that spectrum now, though I admit that I still struggle with some elements of lust and masturbation no, no excuses, it is sin and I need to defeat it.

I also am not working as hard as I should to be the father and husband I should be when I am visiting my family. My heart breaks when I see the depravity in our home, and I need to do a better see more of putting aside all of the old fears, reactions, avoidance, and emotions and trying to respect people where they are at.

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